I am using below sample code to create jqGrid with subGrids.
In my case, I have removed headers of subGrids. So, It looks like a grouping.
Here, Whenever I resize main grid column. I checked jqGrid docs and found "resizeStop" which returns column id and new width.
But, didn't find anything like setSize for column.
<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD XHTML 1.0 Strict//EN" "http://www.w3.org/TR/xhtml1/DTD/xhtml1-strict.dtd">
<html xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
<head>
    <title>SubGrid Editable</title>
    <meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8" />
    <meta http-equiv="X-UA-Compatible" content="IE=edge" />
<link rel="stylesheet" type="text/css" href="http://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/jqueryui/1.9.2/themes/redmond/jquery-ui.css" />
<link rel="stylesheet" type="text/css" href="http://www.ok-soft-gmbh.com/jqGrid/jquery.jqGrid-4.3.2/css/ui.jqgrid.css" />
<style>
    .groupColumn {
            background-color: #E3E3D7 !important;
            border: 1px solid #F4F4e5;
            font-weight: bold; !important;
    }
    .lockedColumn {
            background-color: #E3E3D7 !important;
            border: 1px solid #F4F4e5;
    }
    .ui-jqgrid .ui-subgrid td.subgrid-data {
        border-top: 0 none !important;
        border-right: 0 none !important;
        border-bottom: 0 none !important;
    }
</style>
<script type="text/javascript" src="http://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/jquery/1.8.3/jquery.min.js"></script>
<script type="text/javascript" src="http://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/jqueryui/1.9.2/jquery-ui.min.js"></script>
<script type="text/javascript" src="http://www.ok-soft-gmbh.com/jqGrid/jquery.jqGrid-4.4.1/js/i18n/grid.locale-en.js"></script>
<script type="text/javascript">
    $.jgrid.no_legacy_api = true;
    $.jgrid.useJSON = true;
</script>
<script type="text/javascript" src="http://www.ok-soft-gmbh.com/jqGrid/jquery.jqGrid-4.4.1/js/jquery.jqGrid.src.js"></script>
<script type="text/javascript">
//<![CDATA[
    /*global $ */
    /*jslint browser: true, eqeq: true, plusplus: true */
    $(function () {
        "use strict";
        var colModelData =[{"classes":"groupColumn","name":"itemName","editable":false, "width":"80"},{"width":"80","name":"24394","editable":true},{"width":"80","name":"24390","editable":true},{"width":"80","name":"24387","editable":true},{"width":"80","name":"24386","editable":true},{"width":"80","name":"24385","editable":true},{"width":"80","name":"24383","editable":true},{"width":"80","name":"24369","editable":true},{"width":"80","name":"24306","editable":true}],
            colNamesArray = ["Name","12/21/2012","12/10/2012","12/03/2012","11/27/2012","11/15/2012","11/12/2012","11/09/2012","10/15/2012"],
         editableRows = [0],
         myData = [{"id":"group1","itemName":"Goal Scored","subGridData":[{"id":0,"itemName":"Cristiano Ronaldo","24369":"2","24387":"1","24394":"3","24306":"0","24390":"0","24385":"4","24386":"2","24383":"1"}]},
         {"id":"group2","itemName":"Yellow Cards","subGridData":[{"id":0,"itemName":"Cristiano Ronaldo","24369":"0","24387":"1","24394":"2","24306":"0","24390":"0","24385":"2","24386":"0","24383":"0"}]}];
        $("#list").jqGrid({
            datatype: "local",
            data: myData,
            colNames: colNamesArray,
            colModel: colModelData,
            gridview: true,
            height: "100%",
            width: "100%",
            caption: "Create subgrid from local data",
            subGrid: true,
             subGridOptions: {
                    reloadOnExpand: false,
                    selectOnExpand: false
                },
            subGridRowExpanded: function (subgridDivId, parentRowId) {
                    var $subgrid = $("<table id='" + subgridDivId + "_t'></table>");
                    $subgrid.appendTo("#" + $.jgrid.jqID(subgridDivId));
                    var data = $(this).jqGrid("getLocalRow", parentRowId);
                    $subgrid.jqGrid({
                            datatype: "local",
                            data: $(this).jqGrid("getLocalRow", parentRowId).subGridData,
                            colModel:colModelData,
                            height: "100%",
                            autoencode: true,
                            gridview: true
                    });
            $subgrid.closest("div.ui-jqgrid-view")
                    .children("div.ui-jqgrid-hdiv").hide();
            }, gridComplete: function(){
                    $("#list").jqGrid("expandSubGridRow","group1");
            }   
        });
    });
//]]>
</script>
Screen:

