Trying to install node.js.
Did brew install node
It seems to have worked.
However, received this message upon its completion
Homebrew installed npm.
We recommend prepending the following path to yourPATHenvironment
variable to have npm-installed binaries picked up:
/usr/local/share/npm/bin
Ok ... so, I open my bash_profile...
And this is what I have in it:
 export PATH="/usr/local/bin:/usr/local/sbin:~/bin:$PATH"
 [[ -s "$HOME/.rvm/scripts/rvm" ]] && source "$HOME/.rvm/scripts/rvm" # Load RVM into a shell session *as a function*
Trying to understand how to modify it correctly so I won't ruin it ...
Do I add /usr/local/share/npm/bin like this 
export PATH="/usr/local/bin:/usr/local/sbin:~/bin/usr/local/share/npm/bin:$PATH"
If not, what is the correct way to add that path?
Thank you for any help provided!
PS. let me know if there is any additional information I could have provided
EDIT
upon seeing which npm in macedigital's answer, I ran that ... 
and got this: /usr/local/bin/npm 
and that was before I did the second answer (ie, ThiefMaster's answer).
ran which npm again ... 
and got the same answer as before ...
i did echo $PATH and got this: 
/Users/name/.rvm/gems/ruby-1.9.3-p374/bin:/Users/name/.rvm/gems/ruby-1.9.3-p374@global/bin:/Users/name/.rvm/rubies/ruby-1.9.3-p374/bin:/Users/name/.rvm/bin:/usr/local/share/npm/bin:/usr/local/bin:/usr/local/sbin:~/bin:/usr/bin:/bin:/usr/sbin:/sbin:/usr/X11/bin:/usr/local/git/bin
So, it looks like I already had it installed?
Therefore, how do I handle the answers? I hate leaving it unresolved since both of you were so helpful and I feel bad that I asked without providing echo $PATH information since that would have told you that I had it installed ... 
EDIT 2
ls -la /usr/local/share/npm/bin gets this: 
ls: /usr/local/share/npm/bin: No such file or directory
which -a npm gets this: /usr/local/bin/npm 
EDIT 3
ls -a /usr/local/bin/npm gets this: /usr/local/bin/npm
there's no timestamp...