You ask for Datetime, but maybe my answer (using Date type) can lead you the way too. Let's see.
This answer suggests the Best way to store date/time in mongodb. That is if you can you should choose native JavaScript Date objects.
The way I solve my issue (with Date object) was as follows.
I use the Date field type in my models. E.g. the Event model has two date types, from_date and end_date.
In the controller (e.g. new method) you can use the Date object as usual, no special treatment in my case. I guess for you it is the same. E.g. Date.current or Date.current+3.days.
Note the create method does not specifically manipulate Date objects. The parameters from the web view form are taken as is.
In the view I use the date_field helper. It is an input field of type date. Note that currently Google Chrome supports the date field type, so you will see a date picker pop up. Other browsers don't support the field yet, so it is a simple input field for them. I use jQuery Datepicker in case the browser does not support the input date type field, e.g.
$(document).ready(function(){
...
if ( $('[type="date"]').prop('type') !== 'date' ) {
$('input[type="date"]').datepicker({dateFormat: "yy-mm-dd"});
}
...
});
So in your case maybe you could do something analogue to that
solution. Probably there is no datetime_field helper method, but a
simple input field could do and you use JS to ensure you are saving a
native JS Date/Datetime object for the corresponding field.