situationship
English
Etymology
From situation + -ship or a blend of situational + relationship.
Pronunciation
- (Received Pronunciation) IPA(key): /ˌsɪt͡ʃuˈeɪʃənʃɪp/
- (US) IPA(key): /ˌsɪtʃuˈeɪʃənʃɪp/
Audio (US): (file)
Noun
situationship (plural situationships)
- (neologism, informal) A romantic or sexual relationship in which the parties do not consider or are not clear that they are in such relationship; such that is informal, without the responsibilities of a formal relationship; a companionship.
- 2016, Lerato Tshabalala, The Way I See It: The Musings of a Black Woman in the Rainbow Nation, page 110:
- The thing about being in a situationship – and this is a big thing – is that because you exist in that no-man's-land, the rules of engagement are not spelt out.
- 2017, Jamila Jasper, The Situationship: BWWM Romance Novel, Publisher s23991 (→ISBN):
- “Might you be pregnant?” I scoffed. “Listen Miss James, I know that you know that my personal life is a mess. There's no way I could be pregnant.” “Mark?” “What about Mark?” “Look, I know you're in a situationship with him...” I sighed, “Listen, Mark and I are friends. And anything that happens between us is very well secured against this.” Dawn shrugged, “Accidents happen.” “Not to me they don't,” I retorted.
- 2021 January 10, Valeriya Safronova, “True Stories of Hooking Up During Covid-19”, in The New York Times[1], →ISSN, archived from the original on 3 February 2021:
- “I needed a ‘situationship,’” said Ms. Stevenson, a 31-year-old comedian and writer in Los Angeles. “A person I can rely on and trust to hang out with once a week.”
- 2024 January 18, Gina Cherelus, “TikTok Is 'Standing on Business.' What Does That Mean?”, in The New York Times[2], New York, N.Y.: The New York Times Company, →ISSN, →OCLC, archived from the original on 29 February 2024:
- Seek so much as a kernel of advice on the internet in 2024 about conflicts in a relationship, a situationship or even an affair, and you may find yourself inundated with recommendations to "stand on business." A Hinge match asks to reschedule your first date with 30 minutes' notice? Stand on business. Your ex continues to hit you up months after the breakup? Stand on business.
- For more quotations using this term, see Citations:situationship.
See also
Further reading
- “situationship”, in Urban Dictionary, launched 1999.