Using MySQLi instead of mysql_*
require_once('.dbase'); //contains db constants DB_NAME, DB_USER etc
//using PHP built in connection class mysqli
$mysqli = new mysqli(DB_HOST,DB_UNAME,DB_UPWORD,DB_NAME);
if ($mysqli->connect_errno){
    $err = urlencode("Failed to open database connection: ".$mysqli->connect_error);
    header("Location: error.php?err=$err");
exit();
    }
$deader=implode(',',$deader); //assumes array, sting "143,554,32"
if ($stmt = $mysqli->prepare("UPDATE users SET dead='DEAD' WHERE userID IN (?)"){
    //bind variable to statement object
    $stmt->bind_param('s',$deader) //var type[string],var to bind
    //execute query
    $stmt->execute();
    //feedback
    $rowsAffected = $stmt->affected_rows(); //update doesn't return a result set.
    //close statement object
    $stmt->close();
}
$mysqli->close();
You guys are hammering on Rickos for using mysql_* but not explaining how to do it otherwise,  my point was simply showing how to use mysqli.  A prepared statement isn't necessary, but since you marked my comment down (peehaa) for not showing it as a prepared statement, here it is edited as a prepared statement. And it does answer his questions.