I have also been searching for the holy grail of the right workflow for putting together an R large project. Last year, I found this package called rsuite, and, certainly, it was what I was looking for. This R package was explicitly developed for deployment of large R projects, but I found that it can be used for smaller, medium size, and large size R projects. I will give links to real-world examples in a minute (below), but first, I want to explain the new paradigm of building R projects with rsuite.
Note. I am not the creator or developer of rsuite.
- We have been doing projects all wrong with RStudio; the goal shouldn't be the creation of a project or a package but of a larger scope. In rsuite you create a super-project or master project, which holds the standard R projects and R packages, in all combinations possible. 
- By having an R super-project you don't need anymore Unix - maketo manage the lower levels of the R projects underneath; you use R scripts at the top. Let me show you. When you create a rsuite master project, you get this folder structure:
 

- The folder - Ris where you put your project management scripts, the ones that will replace- make.
 
- The folder - packagesis the folder where- rsuiteholds all the packages that compose the super-project. You can also copy paste a package that is not accessible from the internet, and rsuite will build it as well.
 
- the folder - deploymentis where- rsuitewill write all the package binaries that were indicated in the packages- DESCRIPTIONfiles. So, this makes, by itself, you project totally reproducible accros time.
 
- rsuitecomes with a client for all operating systems. I have tested them all. But you can also install it as an- addinfor RStudio.
 
- rsuitealso lets you build an isolated- condainstallation in its own folder- conda. This is not an environment but a physical Python installation derived from Anaconda in your machine. This works together with R's- SystemRequirements, from which you could install all the Python packages you want, from any conda channel you want.
 
- You can also create local repositories to pull R packages when you are offline, or want to build the whole thing faster. 
- If you want, you can also build the R project as a zip file and share it with colleagues. It will run, providing your colleagues have the same R version installed. 
- Another option is building a container of the whole project in Ubuntu, Debian, or CentOS. So, instead of sharing a zip file with your project build, you share the whole - Dockercontainer with your project ready to run.
 
I have been experimenting a lot with rsuite looking for full reproducibility, and avoid depending of the packages that one installs in the global environment. This is wrong because as soon as you install a package update, the project, more often than not, stops working, specially those packages with very specific calls to a function with certain parameters.
The first thing I started to experiment was with bookdown ebooks. I have never been lucky enough to have a bookdown to survive the test of time longer than six months. So, what I did is converting the original bookdown project to follow the rsuite framework. Now, I don't have to worry about updating my global R environment, because the project has its own set of packages in the deployment folder.
The next thing I did was creating machine learning projects but in the rsuite way. A master, orchestrating project at the top, and all sub-projects and packages to be under the control of the master. It really changes the way you code with R, making you more productive.
After that I started working in a new package of mine called rTorch. This was possible, in large part, because of rsuite; it lets you think and  go big.
One piece of advice though. Learning rsuite is not easy. Because it presents a new way of creating R projects, it feels hard. Do not dismay at the first attempts, continue climbing the slope until you make it. It requires advanced knowledge of your operating system and of your file system.
I expect that one day RStudio allows us to generate orchestrating projects like rsuite does from the menu. It would be awesome.
Links:
RSuite GitHUb repo
r4ds bookdown
keras and shiny tutorial
moderndive-book-rsuite
interpretable_ml-rsuite
IntroMachineLearningWithR-rsuite
clark-intro_ml-rsuite
hyndman-bookdown-rsuite
statistical_rethinking-rsuite
fread-benchmarks-rsuite
dataviz-rsuite
retail-segmentation-h2o-tutorial
telco-customer-churn-tutorial
sclerotinia_rsuite