Yep, similar problem.
I have about twenty spreadsheets and it's quite boring to update all its scripts with silly code: 
 function doSomething(){ myLib.doSomething();}
every time I add new menu entry in main lib.
So I've found more or less dirty workaround - link menu entries to "proxy" functions in lib and create several similar functions in the client spreadsheets in advance (do it once for all client spreadsheets)
//-----------LIB-----------
function libMenu() {
  var mySheet = SpreadsheetApp.getActiveSpreadsheet();
  var menuEntries = [ {name: "Increment current cell", functionName: "processMenuEntry0"},
                      {name: "Do something with row", functionName: "processMenuEntry1"}
                    ];
  mySheet.addMenu("Library Functions", menuEntries);
 }
 function processMenuEntry0()  { incrementCurrentCell();}
 function processMenuEntry1()  { doSomethingWithRow();  }
 //-----------LIB-----------
 //-----------CLIENT-----------
 function onOpen() {
   Library.libMenu();
 }
 function processMenuEntry0()  {gTracking.processMenuEntry0();}
 function processMenuEntry1()  {gTracking.processMenuEntry1();}
 function processMenuEntry2()  {gTracking.processMenuEntry2();}
 function processMenuEntry3()  {gTracking.processMenuEntry3();}
 // etc.
 // I have reserved twenty menu entries in a such way
 //-----------CLIENT-----------
At the moment I do use a little bit enhansed version that allow me to update  menuEntries array only.
Here it is:
 //-----------LIB-----------
 var menuEntries = [ {name: "Increment current cell", functionName: "incrementCurrentCell"},
                  {name: "Do something with row", functionName: "doSomethingWithRow"}
                ];
 //returns menu entries with changed 'functionName' parameter (-> "processMenuEntry" + id)
 function convertMenuEntries() {
   var newMenuEnties=[];                  
   for (var i=0; i< menuEntries.length ;i++){
     if (menuEntries[i] == null) {// for line separators
       newMenuEnties.push(null);
       continue;
     }
     newMenuEnties.push({name: menuEntries[i]["name"], functionName: "processMenuEntry" + i});
   }
   return newMenuEnties;
 }
 function libMenu() {
   var mySheet = SpreadsheetApp.getActiveSpreadsheet();  
   mySheet.addMenu("Library Functions", convertMenuEntries());
 }
 // get function name from menuEntries array and call it
 function processMenuEntry(id){
   this[menuEntries[id]["functionName"]]();
 }
 function processMenuEntry0()  {processMenuEntry(0);}
 function processMenuEntry1()  {processMenuEntry(1);}
 // etc.
 //-----------LIB-----------
 //-----------CLIENT-----------
 function onOpen() {
   Library.libMenu();
 }
 function processMenuEntry0()  {gTracking.processMenuEntry0();}
 function processMenuEntry1()  {gTracking.processMenuEntry1();}
 function processMenuEntry2()  {gTracking.processMenuEntry2();}
 function processMenuEntry3()  {gTracking.processMenuEntry3();}
 // etc.
 //-----------CLIENT-----------