1 - model your use class:
package com.howtodoinjava.xml.sax;
/**
 * Model class. Its instances will be populated using SAX parser.
 * */
public class User
{
    //XML attribute id
    private int id;
    //XML element name
    private String Name;
    //XML element surname
    private String SurName;
    //...
    public int getId() {
        return id;
    }
    public void setId(int id) {
        this.id = id;
    }
    public String getName() {
        return Name;
    }
    public void setName(String Name) {
        this.Name = Name;
    }
    public String getSurName() {
        return SurName;
    }
    public void setSurName(String SurName) {
        this.SurName = SurName;
    }
    // [...]
    @Override
    public String toString() {
        return this.id + ":" + this.Name +  ":" +this.SurName ;
    }
}
2 - Build the handler by extending DefaultParser
package com.howtodoinjava.xml.sax;
import java.util.ArrayList;
import java.util.Stack;
import org.xml.sax.Attributes;
import org.xml.sax.SAXException;
import org.xml.sax.helpers.DefaultHandler;
public class UserParserHandler extends DefaultHandler
{
    //This is the list which shall be populated while parsing the XML.
    private ArrayList userList = new ArrayList();
    //As we read any XML element we will push that in this stack
    private Stack elementStack = new Stack();
    //As we complete one user block in XML, we will push the User instance in userList
    private Stack objectStack = new Stack();
    public void startDocument() throws SAXException
    {
        //System.out.println("start of the document   : ");
    }
    public void endDocument() throws SAXException
    {
        //System.out.println("end of the document document     : ");
    }
    public void startElement(String uri, String localName, String qName, Attributes attributes) throws SAXException
    {
        //Push it in element stack
        this.elementStack.push(qName);
        //If this is start of 'user' element then prepare a new User instance and push it in object stack
        if ("user".equals(qName))
        {
            //New User instance
            User user = new User();
            //Set all required attributes in any XML element here itself
            if(attributes != null && attributes.getLength() == 1)
            {
                user.setId(Integer.parseInt(attributes.getValue(0)));
            }
            this.objectStack.push(user);
        }
    }
    public void endElement(String uri, String localName, String qName) throws SAXException
    {
        //Remove last added  element
        this.elementStack.pop();
        //User instance has been constructed so pop it from object stack and push in userList
        if ("user".equals(qName))
        {
            User object = this.objectStack.pop();
            this.userList.add(object);
        }
    }
    /**
     * This will be called everytime parser encounter a value node
     * */
    public void characters(char[] ch, int start, int length) throws SAXException
    {
        String value = new String(ch, start, length).trim();
        if (value.length() == 0)
        {
            return; // ignore white space
        }
        //handle the value based on to which element it belongs
        if ("name".equals(currentElement()))
        {
            User user = (User) this.objectStack.peek();
            user.setName(value);
        }
        else if ("surname".equals(currentElement()))
        {
            User user = (User) this.objectStack.peek();
            user.setSurName(value);
        }
    }
    /**
     * Utility method for getting the current element in processing
     * */
    private String currentElement()
    {
        return this.elementStack.peek();
    }
    //Accessor for userList object
    public ArrayList getUsers()
    {
        return userList;
    }
}
3 - Write parser for xml file
package com.howtodoinjava.xml.sax;
import java.io.IOException;
import java.io.InputStream;
import java.util.ArrayList;
import org.xml.sax.InputSource;
import org.xml.sax.SAXException;
import org.xml.sax.XMLReader;
import org.xml.sax.helpers.XMLReaderFactory;
public class UsersXmlParser
{
    public ArrayList parseXml(InputStream in)
    {
        //Create a empty link of users initially
        ArrayList<user> users = new ArrayList</user><user>();
        try
        {
            //Create default handler instance
            UserParserHandler handler = new UserParserHandler();
            //Create parser from factory
            XMLReader parser = XMLReaderFactory.createXMLReader();
            //Register handler with parser
            parser.setContentHandler(handler);
            //Create an input source from the XML input stream
            InputSource source = new InputSource(in);
            //parse the document
            parser.parse(source);
            //populate the parsed users list in above created empty list; You can return from here also.
            users = handler.getUsers();
        } catch (SAXException e) {
            // TODO Auto-generated catch block
            e.printStackTrace();
        } catch (IOException e) {
            // TODO Auto-generated catch block
            e.printStackTrace();
        } finally {
        }
        return users;
    }
}
4 - Test parser
package com.howtodoinjava.xml.sax;
import java.io.File;
import java.io.FileInputStream;
import java.io.FileNotFoundException;
import java.util.ArrayList;
public class TestSaxParser
{
    public static void main(String[] args) throws FileNotFoundException
    {
        //Locate the file OR String
        File xmlFile = new File("D:/temp/sample.xml");
        //Create the parser instance
        UsersXmlParser parser = new UsersXmlParser();
        //Parse the file Or change to parse String
        ArrayList users = parser.parseXml(new FileInputStream(xmlFile));
        //Verify the result
        System.out.println(users);
    }
}