Make a service that each directive uses and hold the state in there.
Something like this:
angular.module('MyPlayer' [])
.factory('playerState', function() {
    var players = [];
    return {
        registerPlayer: function(player) {
            players.add(player);
        },
        unregisterPlayer: function(player) {
            var i = players.indexOf(player);
            (i>-1) && players.splice(i,1);
        },
        stopAllPlayers: function() {
            for(var i=0;i<players.length;i++) {
                players[i].stop();
            }
        }
    }
})
.directive('player', function(playerState) {
    return {
        ...
        link: function(scope, elem, attr) {
            var player = {
                stop: function() {
                    /* logic to stop playing */
                },
                play = function(song) {
                    playerState.stopAllPlayers();
                    /* logic to start playing */
                }
            }
            playerState.registerPlayer(player);
            scope.$on("$destroy", function() {
                playerState.unregister(player);
            });
            scope.play = player.play;
            scope.stop = player.stop;
            ...
        }
    }
})