The csv.reader won't read the whole file into memory. It lazily iterates over the file, line by line, as you iterate over the reader object. So you can just use the reader as you normally would, but break from your iteration after you're read however many lines you want to read. You can see this in the C-code used to implement the reader object.
Initializer for the reader objecT:
static PyObject *
csv_reader(PyObject *module, PyObject *args, PyObject *keyword_args)
{
    PyObject * iterator, * dialect = NULL;
    ReaderObj * self = PyObject_GC_New(ReaderObj, &Reader_Type);
    if (!self)
        return NULL;
    self->dialect = NULL;
    self->fields = NULL;
    self->input_iter = NULL;
    self->field = NULL;
    // stuff we dont care about here
    // ...
    self->input_iter = PyObject_GetIter(iterator);  // here we save the iterator (file object) we passed in
    if (self->input_iter == NULL) {
        PyErr_SetString(PyExc_TypeError,
                        "argument 1 must be an iterator");
        Py_DECREF(self);
        return NULL;
    }
static PyObject *
Reader_iternext(ReaderObj *self)  // This is what gets called when you call `next(reader_obj)` (which is what a for loop does internally)
{
    PyObject *fields = NULL;
    Py_UCS4 c;
    Py_ssize_t pos, linelen;
    unsigned int kind;
    void *data;
    PyObject *lineobj;
    if (parse_reset(self) < 0)
        return NULL;
    do {
        lineobj = PyIter_Next(self->input_iter);  // Equivalent to calling `next(input_iter)`
        if (lineobj == NULL) {
            /* End of input OR exception */
            if (!PyErr_Occurred() && (self->field_len != 0 ||
                                      self->state == IN_QUOTED_FIELD)) {
                if (self->dialect->strict)
                    PyErr_SetString(_csvstate_global->error_obj,
                                    "unexpected end of data");
                else if (parse_save_field(self) >= 0)
                    break;
            }
            return NULL;
        }
As you can see, next(reader_object) calls next(file_object) internally. So you're iterating over both line by line, without reading the entire thing into memory.