I feel my problem is very complicated.
I have a Table A with a column named AbsenceLinks. 
The table would look like this:
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|     Description     |    AbsenceLinks  |
|- - - - - - - - - - - - - + - - - - - - - - - - - - - -|
|         Illness          |        14/3 15/9       
|
|- - - - - - - - - - - - - + - - - - - - - - - - - - - -| 
|     Education        |        19/3 18/9       
|
|- - - - - - - - - - - - - + - - - - - - - - - - - - - -| 
|Leave of Absence|            20/3            
|
|- - - - - - - - - - - - - + - - - - - - - - - - - - - -| 
|      Holiday           |             8/3            
|
l- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -l
I have another table B where I have a column named AbsenceID that matches the number before the slash-symbol in the AbsenceLinks column. (Table A AbsenceLinks value '20/9' matches AbsenceID 20 in table B)
This table would look like this:
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|          Absence           |       AbsenceID     
|
| - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -+ - - - - - - - - - - - - - -|
|        Illness (Days)      |             14               
|
| - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -+ - - - - - - - - - - - - - -|
|            Illness             |              15             
|
| - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -+ - - - - - - - - - - - - - -|
|    Leave of Absence   |             20             
|
| - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -+ - - - - - - - - - - - - - -|
|Holiday Without Salary|              8             
|
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I tried to see how I could retrieve some of the string from AbsenceLinks and made a case statement:
CASE
WHEN LEN(AbsenceLink) = 3 THEN SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,1,1) --1/3
WHEN LEN(AbsenceLink) = 4 and SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,1,4) LIKE '%/' THEN SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,1,1)--1/10
WHEN LEN(AbsenceLink) = 4 AND SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,1,4) LIKE '%/%' THEN SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,1,2)--17/3
WHEN LEN(AbsenceLink) = 8 AND SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,1,2) like '%/' AND SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,5,2) like '%/' THEN SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,1,1)+', '+SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,5,1)--2/9 1/10
WHEN LEN(AbsenceLink) = 8 AND SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,1,3) like '%/' AND SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,5,3) like '%/' THEN SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,1,2)+', '+SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,5,2)--10/3 9/9
WHEN lenLENAbsenceLink) = 9 AND SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,1,3) like '%/' AND SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,5,4) like '%' THEN SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,1,2)+', '+SUBSTRING(AbsenceLink,5,3)--14/3 15/9
End AS AbsLink
I have to compare theese values in a report for some statistic for a customer.
I need theese two tables to be linked and theese columns are the only columns which can be linked.
I want to do like this: 
SELECT A.col1, A.col2, B.col1, B.col2
FROM TableA A, TableB B
WHERE A.AbsenceLink = B.Absence 
The problem is:
- The value of AbsenceLink is a nvarchar value like '20 / 3 1/9 ', there may be one or many spaces before or after the AbsenceID
 - Absence is a int value like 20 and 1.
 - I want 20 and 1 from '20/3 1/9' to be compared and linked with the Absence value.
 - It is a database at my work and I can't change the data or make another table.
 
So dearest wise and clever programmers - what can I do?