I needed to set flash[:notice] in the model to override the generic "@model was successfully updated".
This what I did
- Created a virtual attribute in the respective model called validation_message
- Then I set the virtual attribute in the respective model when needed
- Used an after_action when this virtual attribute was not blank to override the default flash
You can see my controller and model how I accomplished this below:
class Reservation < ActiveRecord::Base
  belongs_to :retailer
  belongs_to :sharedorder
  accepts_nested_attributes_for :sharedorder
  accepts_nested_attributes_for :retailer
  attr_accessor :validation_code, :validation_messages
  validate :first_reservation, :if => :new_record_and_unvalidated
  def new_record_and_unvalidated
    if !self.new_record? && !self.retailer.validated?
      true
    else
      false
    end
  end
  def first_reservation
    if self.validation_code != "test" || self.validation_code.blank?
      errors.add_to_base("Validation code was incorrect") 
    else
      self.retailer.update_attribute(:validated, true)
      self.validation_message = "Your validation is successful and you will not need to do that again"
    end
  end
end
class ReservationsController < ApplicationController
  before_filter :authenticate_retailer!
  after_filter :validation_messages, :except => :index
  def validation_messages
    return unless @reservation.validation_message.present?
    flash[:notice] = @reservation.validation_message
  end
end
One possible refactor would be to move the actual message in a proper file (e.g. a locale) and pass to validation_message only the proper key.
Should you need more than one notice it's easy enough to turn validation_message into an array or a hash and call it validation_messages instead.