It seems that there is no event for resizing a textarea.
You could check out the following answer on an older question:
https://stackoverflow.com/a/7055239/1537154 
You can modify this to update al other textareas:
http://jsfiddle.net/tsx1yxj3/
jQuery(document).ready(function(){
   var $textareas = jQuery('textarea');
   // store init (default) state   
   $textareas.data('x', $textareas.outerWidth());
   $textareas.data('y', $textareas.outerHeight()); 
   $textareas.mouseup(function(){
  var $this = jQuery(this);
  if (  $this.outerWidth()  != $this.data('x') 
     || $this.outerHeight() != $this.data('y') )
  {
      // Resize Action Here  
      $('textarea').height($this.outerHeight());
      $('textarea').width($this.outerWidth());
  }
  // store new height/width
  $this.data('x', $this.outerWidth());
  $this.data('y', $this.outerHeight()); 
 });
});
Resizing only kicks in after your done and there are some other limitations.
You could also look at a jquery UI implementation:
http://jqueryui.com/resizable/