based on this post . 
answer by pr0zac
Create an express Session Store , you can use redis or whatever ....
 we will use to session cookie later
//better to use redis store
MemoryStore = require('connect/middleware/session/memory'),
var session_store = new MemoryStore();
app.configure(function () {
  app.use(express.session({ store: session_store }));
});
on Connection Event Handler
var connect = require('connect');
io.on('connection', function(socket_client) {
  var cookie_string = socket_client.request.headers.cookie;
  var parsed_cookies = connect.utils.parseCookie(cookie_string);
  var connect_sid = parsed_cookies['connect.sid'];
  if (connect_sid) {
    session_store.get(connect_sid, function (error, session) {
      if(session.lastConnected - Date.now() < HALF_HOUR) {
         socket_client.close()
      } else {
         session.lastConnected = Date.now()
      }
  });
  socket_client.on('disconnect', function () {
      if (connect_sid) {
        session_store.get(connect_sid, function (error, session) {
          // reset lastconnected
          session.lastConnected = 0;
        }
     });
  });
 }
});
I'm using express session object , to determine if the connection's timestamp  delta is less than half and hour ( this can be modified ).
if it does happen i close to socket, else i update lastConnected to now.
socket_client.on('disconnect', function() { ....
on disconnect event i reset the session lastConnected flag on socket .