I've got this:
  <select style="font-size: 20" id="subject" name="subject">
     <option hidden value="hello">I just want to say hello =]</option>
     <option value="quote">I'd like a quote</option>  
     <option value="general">General</option>   
  </select>  
Works so far, but i'd like the hello option to be gray as selected (like placeholders in textareas)
if i do this:
  <select style="font-size: 20" id="subject" name="subject">
     <option hidden style="color:gray" value="hello">I just want to say hello =]</option>
     <option value="quote">I'd like a quote</option>  
     <option value="general">General</option>   
  </select>  
It only changes the color of "hello" when dropped down, and not in the actual select element
 
     
    