This is quite easily done with lapply:
# Generate sample data (10 columns x 100 rows) normally distributed around 0
my.df <- as.data.frame(matrix(rnorm(n=1000), ncol=10))
# Get the line numbers, for each column in the df
lapply(my.df, function(x) which(abs(x) > 2.5))
# $V1
# integer(0)
# 
# $V2
# [1] 29 69
# 
# $V3
# [1] 85
# 
# $V4
# [1] 100
# 
# $V5
# [1] 11 40
# 
# $V6
# [1] 89
# 
# $V7
# [1] 67
# 
# $V8
# [1] 49 68
# 
# $V9
# integer(0)
# 
# $V10
# [1]  7 27
To get a formatting close to what you have given in your question, ExperimenteR kindly suggested this:
library(data.table)
setDT(my.df)[, list(lapply(.SD, function(x) which(abs(x) > 2.5))), ]
 #        V1
 #  1:      
 #  2: 29,69
 #  3:    85
 #  4:   100
 #  5: 11,40
 #  6:    89
 #  7:    67
 #  8: 49,68
 #  9:      
 # 10:  7,27
To rather get the total number, for each column in the df, use
lapply(my.df, function(x) sum(abs(x) > 2.5))
# $V1
# [1] 0
# 
# $V2
# [1] 2
# 
# $V3
# [1] 1
# 
# $V4
# [1] 1
# 
# $V5
# [1] 2
# 
# $V6
# [1] 1
# 
# $V7
# [1] 1
# 
# $V8
# [1] 2
# 
# $V9
# [1] 0
# 
# $V10
# [1] 2