I have three fields in my form: status, ask date, and expected date
If my Status=A, I would like my expected date to be required in validation additionally I would like my expected date validated to always be greater than the ask date
so here are my rules
rules: {
      status: {
        required: true,
      },
      ask_date: {
        required: true,
        date:true,
      },
      expected_date: {
        required: function(element){
            if($('#status').val()=='A'){
              return true;
            } else {
              return false;
            }
        },
        greaterThan: "#ask_date",
        date:true,
      },
How can I say invoke the greaterThan method ONLY when the field meets the conditions for being required?
the "greaterThan" is custom jquery validation method i am using for this from a separate stack overflow here Validate that end date is greater than start date with jQuery
jQuery.validator.addMethod("greaterThan", 
function(value, element, params) {
    if (!/Invalid|NaN/.test(new Date(value))) {
        return new Date(value) > new Date($(params).val());
    }
    return isNaN(value) && isNaN($(params).val()) 
        || (Number(value) > Number($(params).val())); 
},'Must be greater than {0}.');
 
     
    