I have a Family table:
SELECT * FROM Family;
id | Surname  | Oldest | Oldest_Age    
---+----------+--------+-------
 1 | Byre     | NULL   | NULL
 2 | Summers  | NULL   | NULL
 3 | White    | NULL   | NULL
 4 | Anders   | NULL   | NULL
The Family.Oldest column is not yet populated. There is another table of Children:
SELECT * FROM Children;
id | Name     | Age  | Family_FK
---+----------+------+--------
 1 | Jake     | 8    | 1
 2 | Martin   | 7    | 2
 3 | Sarah    | 10   | 1
 4 | Tracy    | 12   | 3
where many children (or no children) can be associated with one family. I would like to populate the Oldest column using an UPDATE ... SET ... statement that sets it to the Name and Oldest_Age of the oldest child in each family. Finding the name of each oldest child is a problem that is solved quite well here: How can I SELECT rows with MAX(Column value), DISTINCT by another column in SQL? 
However, I don't know how to use the result of this in an UPDATE statement to update the column of an associated table using the h2 database. 
 
     
    