Try this, the id of my button was toggle-button--helloname-my-button1 where helloname is the name of my addon and my-button1 was the id i set. So the dom id was toggle-button--helloname-my-button1 you should update this to be toggle-button--YOUR_ADDON_NAME-my-link:
// globals
Cu.import('resource://gre/modules/Services.jsm');
var sss = Cc['@mozilla.org/content/style-sheet-service;1'].getService(Ci.nsIStyleSheetService);
var cssUri;
var svgFilterUrl;
// end globals
if (Services.vc.compare(Services.appinfo.version, 34) < 0) {
    // for less then firefox v34
    if (!svgFilterUrl) {
        Cu.importGlobalProperties(['URL']);
        var oFileBody = '<svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><filter id="grayscale"><feColorMatrix type="saturate" values="0"/></filter></svg>';
        var {Blob} = Cu.import("resource://gre/modules/Services.jsm", {});
        var oBlob = Blob([oFileBody], {
            type: "text/xml"
        });
        svgFilterUrl = URL.createObjectURL(oBlob);
        console.log(url)
    }
    var css = '#toggle-button--helloname-my-button1[disabled] { filter: url(' + url + '#grayscale); }';
} else {
    // for less then firefox >= v34
    var css = '#toggle-button--helloname-my-button1[disabled] { filter:grayscale(1) }';
}
var newURIParam = {
    aURL: 'data:text/css,' + encodeURIComponent(css),
    aOriginCharset: null,
    aBaseURI: null
};
var cssUri = Services.io.newURI(newURIParam.aURL, newURIParam.aOriginCharset, newURIParam.aBaseURI);
sss.loadAndRegisterSheet(cssUri, sss.AUTHOR_SHEET);
and when you want to uninstall/disable your addon do sss.unregisterSheet(cssUri, sss.AUTHOR_SHEET);