There are probably a number of ways to accomplish this, depending on your implementation preferences. My advice is to use the rdf:li special property in place of the arbitrary rdf:_nnn, which is easier to extend. rdf:li is equivalent to rdf:_1, rdf:_2 in order. So the following code blocks are equivalent:
:mySeq a rdf:Seq;
  rdf:_1 :foo;
  rdf:_2 :bar .
:mySeq a rdf:Seq;
  rdf:li :foo;
  rdf:li :bar .
Note that the order in the second block is significant. 
To accomplish what you are asking, you can extend rdf:li with a new property and refine its domain/range (although these are only really meaningful to human readers, as the child property inherits the semantics of the parent):
:myItem rdfs:subPropertyOf rdf:li;
  rdfs:range :typeOfElement;
  rdfs:domain :mySeq .
:myItem inherits the semantics of rdf:li, so whatever implementatin logic you have can infer that the values of :myItem are in some meaningful order. Next define the :mySeq class via a property restriction:
:mySeq rdfs:subClassOf [ 
    a owl:Restriction; 
    owl:onProperty :myItem;
    owl:allValuesFrom :typeOfElement;].
which asserts that :mySeq is a class of all things where the property :myItem is explicitly used for values of :typeOfElement. You can now create lists with :mySeq. 
To go a step further, you may define :mySeq as the intersection of the above rule and rdf:Seq:
:mySeq a owl:Class;
    owl:equivalentClass
    [ a owl:Class;
        owl:intersectionOf
          ( rdf:Seq
            [a owl:Restriction;
             owl:onProperty :myItem;
             owl:allValuesFrom :typeOfElement ]) ] .
Note the use owl:equivalentClass in place of rdfs:subClassOf. If we treat owl:equivalentClass as symmetric and subsumed by rdfs:subClassOf, eg:
owl:equivalentClass a owl:SymmetricProperty .
owl:equivalentClass rdfs:subPropertyOf rdfs:subClassOf .
then we can have equivalence that goes in both directions. Therefore all instances of rdf:Seq whose values for :myItem are of :typeOfElement are also instances of :mySeq. In this case you are inferring the type. So via the statement:
:x a rdf:Seq; :myItem :foo, :bar .
you may infer that :x a :mySeq.