i have three tabs in my Db:
1.pers_info(id(primary), name ,....)
2.contacts(c_id(primary), phone, email, ...)
now 1 person can have multiple rows in contacts tab.
thus to minimize redundancy i made another tab contact_relation(id (foregin key references pers_info(id), c_id (foregin key references contacts(c_id))
i successfully created the relation and also was able to insert apt entries(related id and c_id) to it "using last_insert_id();" to extract id and c_id required.
now the problem..
i dropped tab contacts_rel. and created it this way :
CREATE TABLE contacts_relation (
    id INT NOT NULL,
    cid INT NOT NULL,
    FOREIGN KEY (id)
      REFERENCES pers_info(id)
      ON UPDATE CASCADE ON DELETE RESTRICT,
    FOREIGN KEY (c_id)
      REFERENCES contacts(c_id)
);
if now i try to insert into tab cont_rel, it gives error : 
cannot add or update a child row foreign key constraint fails.
which makes sense..
i was hoping that adding constraints in the defn of tab cont_rel would save the hassle of inserting entries in it manually using "last_insert_id();"
so is there a way, i could maintain ref integrity with new data coming.. thanks.