User and Organization have a many-to-many association through Relationship.
One of the variables in the Relationship model is a boolean called member.
A user can occur in the Relationship model multiple times as a user can be related to multiple organizations.
How can I select a random instance from all the users that 1) don't have a relationship with any organization (so don't occur in the Relationship model) plus 2) those users that do have a relationship with an organization but for whom member = false for all their relationships with organizations?
I was thinking of something like:
user = User.where( relationship_id = nil || ??? ).offset(rand(0..100)).first