You can use ImageView and VideoView together on your grid item layout.
        <FrameLayout
            android:layout_width="match_parent"
            android:layout_height="@dimen/post_image_size">
            <ImageView
                android:id="@+id/imageView"
                android:layout_width="match_parent"
                android:layout_height="@dimen/post_image_size"/>
            <VideoView
                android:id="@+id/videoView"
                android:layout_width="match_parent"
                android:layout_height="@dimen/post_image_size" />
        </FrameLayout>
In adapter#getView(), you should check the type of your url and set one of them, and set invisible other one.
    if (!isVideo(url)) {
        videoView.setVisibility(View.GONE);
        Picasso.with(this).load(imageUrl)
                .into(imageView);
    } else {
        Uri uri = Uri.parse(url);
        videoView.setVideoURI(uri);
        videoView.setOnPreparedListener(new MediaPlayer.OnPreparedListener() {
            @Override
            public void onPrepared(MediaPlayer mp) {
                imageView.setVisibility(View.GONE);
                videoView.setBackgroundColor(Color.TRANSPARENT);
                videoView.requestFocus();
                videoView.setOnTouchListener(new View.OnTouchListener() {
                    @Override
                    public boolean onTouch(View v, MotionEvent event) {
                        // start your new activity to play video
                        return false;
                    }
                });
            }
        });
    }
PS1: I used Picasso to set ImageView.
PS2: In Instagram, we can get images of a video post by using Instagram API. Also we have mediaType flag to determine that it is a video or image. You can check Instagram API from here. I've developed an instagram repost app. In gridView, I am using the image that is coming from API of a video post. When clicking a video item, I start a new activity to play video as well. But, if you really need capture a frame of a video, you can see this entry.