I know I'm late, I just changed the way I manage cursor Hourglass (busy state) of my application.
This proposed solution is more complex than my first answer but I think it is more complete and better.
I do not said I have an easy solution or complete one. But for me it is the best because it mostly fixes all the troubles I had managing the busy state of my application.
Advantages:
- Can manage "Busy" state from either the model and the view.
 
- Able to manage busy state either if there is no GUI. Decoupled from GUI.
 
- Thread safe (can be used from any thread) 
 
- Support Busy override (show arrow temporarily) when there is a Window (Dialog) that should be visible in the middle of a very long transaction. 
 
- Able to stack many operations with busy behavior that show a constant hourglass either if it is part a many little long sub tasks. Having an hourglass which would not change frequently from busy to normal to busy. A constant busy state if possible, by using a stack. 
 
- Support event subsciption with weak pointer because "Global" object instance is global (will never be Garbage Collected - it is rooted).
 
The code is separated into few classes:
- No GUI class: "Global" which manage Busy state and should be initialized at application start with the dispatcher. Because it is Global (singleton), I chosen to have weak NotifyPropertyChanged event in order to not keep a hard ref on anyone which want to be notify of any change.
 
- A GUI class: AppGlobal which hook to Global and change Mouse appearance in accordance with Gloab.Busy state. It should be initialiazed with the dispatcher also at program start.
 
- A GUI class to help Dialog(Window) to have proper mouse behavior when used into a long transaction where the mouse has been overriden to show an hourglass and want the regular arrow when the Dialog(Window) is in use.
 
- The code also include some dependencies.
 
This is the usage:
Init:
public partial class App : Application
{
    // ******************************************************************
    protected override void OnStartup(StartupEventArgs e)
    {
        Global.Init(Application.Current.Dispatcher);
        AppGlobal.Init(Application.Current.Dispatcher);
Prefered usage:
        using (Global.Instance.GetDisposableBusyState())
        {
        ...
        }
Other usage:
// ******************************************************************
public DlgAddAggregateCalc()
{
    InitializeComponent();
    Model = DataContext as DlgAddAggregateCalcViewModel;
    this.Activated += OnActivated;
    this.Deactivated += OnDeactivated;
}
// ************************************************************************
private void OnDeactivated(object sender, EventArgs eventArgs)
{
    Global.Instance.PullState();
}
// ************************************************************************
private void OnActivated(object sender, EventArgs eventArgs)
{
    Global.Instance.PushState(false);
}
Auto Window cursor:
public partial class DlgAddSignalResult : Window
{
    readonly WindowWithAutoBusyState _autoBusyState = new WindowWithAutoBusyState();
    // ******************************************************************
    public DlgAddSignalResult()
    {
        InitializeComponent();
        Model = DataContext as DlgAddSignalResultModel;
        _autoBusyState.Init(this);
    }
Code:
// Copyright (c) 2008 Daniel Grunwald
// 
// Permission is hereby granted, free of charge, to any person
// obtaining a copy of this software and associated documentation
// files (the "Software"), to deal in the Software without
// restriction, including without limitation the rights to use,
// copy, modify, merge, publish, distribute, sublicense, and/or sell
// copies of the Software, and to permit persons to whom the
// Software is furnished to do so, subject to the following
// conditions:
// 
// The above copyright notice and this permission notice shall be
// included in all copies or substantial portions of the Software.
// 
// THE SOFTWARE IS PROVIDED "AS IS", WITHOUT WARRANTY OF ANY KIND,
// EXPRESS OR IMPLIED, INCLUDING BUT NOT LIMITED TO THE WARRANTIES
// OF MERCHANTABILITY, FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE AND
// NONINFRINGEMENT. IN NO EVENT SHALL THE AUTHORS OR COPYRIGHT
// HOLDERS BE LIABLE FOR ANY CLAIM, DAMAGES OR OTHER LIABILITY,
// WHETHER IN AN ACTION OF CONTRACT, TORT OR OTHERWISE, ARISING
// FROM, OUT OF OR IN CONNECTION WITH THE SOFTWARE OR THE USE OR
// OTHER DEALINGS IN THE SOFTWARE.
/* Usage:
 * 
 * 
 * 
        public delegate void FileChangedHandler(object sender, FileSystemEventArgs e);
        [field: NonSerialized]
        private readonly SmartWeakEvent<FileChangedHandler> _weakFileChanged = new SmartWeakEvent<FileChangedHandler>();
        public event FileChangedHandler FileChanged
        {
            add
            {
                _weakFileChanged.Add(value);
            }
            remove
            {
                _weakFileChanged.Remove(value);
            }
        }
 *
 *
 */
using System;
using System.Collections.Generic;
using System.Diagnostics;
using System.Reflection;
using System.Runtime.CompilerServices;
namespace HQ.Util.General.WeakEvent
{
    /// <summary>
    /// A class for managing a weak event.
    /// </summary>
    public sealed class SmartWeakEvent<T> where T : class
    {
        struct EventEntry
        {
            public readonly MethodInfo TargetMethod;
            public readonly WeakReference TargetReference;
            public EventEntry(MethodInfo targetMethod, WeakReference targetReference)
            {
                this.TargetMethod = targetMethod;
                this.TargetReference = targetReference;
            }
        }
        readonly List<EventEntry> eventEntries = new List<EventEntry>();
        // EO: Added for ObservableCollectionWeak
        public int CountOfDelegateEntry
        {
            get
            {
                RemoveDeadEntries();
                return eventEntries.Count;
            }
        }
        static SmartWeakEvent()
        {
            if (!typeof(T).IsSubclassOf(typeof(Delegate)))
                throw new ArgumentException("T must be a delegate type");
            MethodInfo invoke = typeof(T).GetMethod("Invoke");
            if (invoke == null || invoke.GetParameters().Length != 2)
                throw new ArgumentException("T must be a delegate type taking 2 parameters");
            ParameterInfo senderParameter = invoke.GetParameters()[0];
            if (senderParameter.ParameterType != typeof(object))
                throw new ArgumentException("The first delegate parameter must be of type 'object'");
            ParameterInfo argsParameter = invoke.GetParameters()[1];
            if (!(typeof(EventArgs).IsAssignableFrom(argsParameter.ParameterType)))
                throw new ArgumentException("The second delegate parameter must be derived from type 'EventArgs'");
            if (invoke.ReturnType != typeof(void))
                throw new ArgumentException("The delegate return type must be void.");
        }
        public void Add(T eh)
        {
            if (eh != null)
            {
                Delegate d = (Delegate)(object)eh;
                if (d.Method.DeclaringType.GetCustomAttributes(typeof(CompilerGeneratedAttribute), false).Length != 0)
                    throw new ArgumentException("Cannot create weak event to anonymous method with closure.");
                if (eventEntries.Count == eventEntries.Capacity)
                    RemoveDeadEntries();
                WeakReference target = d.Target != null ? new WeakReference(d.Target) : null;
                eventEntries.Add(new EventEntry(d.Method, target));
            }
        }
        void RemoveDeadEntries()
        {
            eventEntries.RemoveAll(ee => ee.TargetReference != null && !ee.TargetReference.IsAlive);
        }
        public void Remove(T eh)
        {
            if (eh != null)
            {
                Delegate d = (Delegate)(object)eh;
                for (int i = eventEntries.Count - 1; i >= 0; i--)
                {
                    EventEntry entry = eventEntries[i];
                    if (entry.TargetReference != null)
                    {
                        object target = entry.TargetReference.Target;
                        if (target == null)
                        {
                            eventEntries.RemoveAt(i);
                        }
                        else if (target == d.Target && entry.TargetMethod == d.Method)
                        {
                            eventEntries.RemoveAt(i);
                            break;
                        }
                    }
                    else
                    {
                        if (d.Target == null && entry.TargetMethod == d.Method)
                        {
                            eventEntries.RemoveAt(i);
                            break;
                        }
                    }
                }
            }
        }
        public void Raise(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            int stepExceptionHelp = 0;
            try
            {
                bool needsCleanup = false;
                object[] parameters = {sender, e};
                foreach (EventEntry ee in eventEntries.ToArray())
                {
                    stepExceptionHelp = 1;
                    if (ee.TargetReference != null)
                    {
                        stepExceptionHelp = 2;
                        object target = ee.TargetReference.Target;
                        if (target != null)
                        {
                            stepExceptionHelp = 3;
                            ee.TargetMethod.Invoke(target, parameters);
                        }
                        else
                        {
                            needsCleanup = true;
                        }
                    }
                    else
                    {
                        stepExceptionHelp = 4;
                        ee.TargetMethod.Invoke(null, parameters);
                    }
                }
                if (needsCleanup)
                {
                    stepExceptionHelp = 5;
                    RemoveDeadEntries();
                }
                stepExceptionHelp = 6;
            }
            catch (Exception ex)
            {
                string appName = Assembly.GetEntryAssembly().GetName().Name;
                if (!EventLog.SourceExists(appName))
                {
                    EventLog.CreateEventSource(appName, "Application");
                    EventLog.WriteEntry(appName,
                        String.Format("Exception happen in 'SmartWeakEvent.Raise()': {0}. Stack: {1}. Additional int: {2}.", ex.Message, ex.StackTrace, stepExceptionHelp), EventLogEntryType.Error);
                }
                throw;
            }
        }
    }
}
using System;
using System.Collections.Generic;
using System.ComponentModel;
using System.Diagnostics;
using System.Linq.Expressions;
using System.Runtime.CompilerServices;
using System.Threading.Tasks;
using System.Windows;
using System.Windows.Threading;
using System.Xml.Serialization;
using HQ.Util.General.Log;
using HQ.Util.General.WeakEvent;
using JetBrains.Annotations;
// using System.Windows.Forms;
// using Microsoft.CSharp.RuntimeBinder;
// ATTENTION: Can only be used with Framework 4.0 and up
namespace HQ.Util.General.Notification
{
    [Serializable]
    public class NotifyPropertyChangedThreadSafeAsyncWeakBase : INotifyPropertyChanged
    {
        // ******************************************************************
        [XmlIgnore]
        [field: NonSerialized]
        public SmartWeakEvent<PropertyChangedEventHandler> SmartPropertyChanged = new SmartWeakEvent<PropertyChangedEventHandler>();
        [XmlIgnore]
        [field: NonSerialized]
        private Dispatcher _dispatcher = null;
        // ******************************************************************
        public event PropertyChangedEventHandler PropertyChanged
        {
            add
            {
                SmartPropertyChanged.Add(value);
            }
            remove
            {
                SmartPropertyChanged.Remove(value);
            }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        [Browsable(false)]
        [XmlIgnore]
        public Dispatcher Dispatcher
        {
            get
            {
                if (_dispatcher == null)
                {
                    _dispatcher = Application.Current?.Dispatcher;
                    if (_dispatcher == null)                    
                    { 
                        if (Application.Current?.MainWindow != null)
                        {
                            _dispatcher = Application.Current.MainWindow.Dispatcher;
                        }
                    }
                }
                return _dispatcher;
            }
            set
            {
                if (_dispatcher == null && _dispatcher != value)
                {
                    Debug.Print("Dispatcher has changed??? ");
                }
                _dispatcher = value;
            }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        [NotifyPropertyChangedInvocator]
        protected void NotifyPropertyChanged([CallerMemberName] String propertyName = null)
        {
            try
            {
                if (Dispatcher == null || Dispatcher.CheckAccess()) // Can be null in case of Console app
                {
                    SmartPropertyChanged.Raise(this, new PropertyChangedEventArgs(propertyName));
                }
                else
                {
                    Dispatcher.BeginInvoke(
                        new Action(() => SmartPropertyChanged.Raise(this, new PropertyChangedEventArgs(propertyName))));
                }
            }
            catch (TaskCanceledException ex) // Prevent MT error when closing app...
            {
                Log.Log.Instance.AddEntry(LogType.LogException, "An exception occured when trying to notify.", ex);
            }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        [NotifyPropertyChangedInvocator]
        protected void NotifyPropertyChanged<T2>(Expression<Func<T2>> propAccess)
        {
            try
            {
                var asMember = propAccess.Body as MemberExpression;
                if (asMember == null)
                    return;
                string propertyName = asMember.Member.Name;
                if (Dispatcher == null || Dispatcher.CheckAccess()) // Can be null in case of Console app
                {
                    SmartPropertyChanged.Raise(this, new PropertyChangedEventArgs(propertyName));
                }
                else
                {
                    Dispatcher.BeginInvoke(new Action(() => SmartPropertyChanged.Raise(this, new PropertyChangedEventArgs(propertyName))));
                }
            }
            catch (TaskCanceledException ex) // Prevent MT error when closing app...
            {
                Log.Log.Instance.AddEntry(LogType.LogException, "An exception occured when trying to notify.", ex);
            }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        protected bool UpdateField<T>(ref T field, T value, [CallerMemberName] string propertyName = null)
        {
            if (!EqualityComparer<T>.Default.Equals(field, value))
            {
                field = value;
                NotifyPropertyChanged(propertyName);
                return true;
            }
            return false;
        }
        // ******************************************************************
    }
}
using System;
using System.Collections.Concurrent;
using System.Collections.Generic;
using System.Linq;
using System.Text;
using System.Threading;
using System.Threading.Tasks;
using System.Windows;
using System.Windows.Threading;
using HQ.Util.General.Notification;
namespace HQ.Util.General
{
    /// <summary>
    /// This is the centralized calss to obtain the Dispatcher in order to make sure to get the appropriate one (the MainWindow dispatcher).
    /// If you need a specidifc thread dispatcher, please refer to System.Windows.Threading.Dispatcher or Dispatcher.CurrentDispatcher.
    /// This dispatcher should be set at the initialization (start) of any GUI executable: ex: Global.Instance.Dispatcher = Application.Current.Dispatcher;
    /// </summary>
    public class Global : NotifyPropertyChangedThreadSafeAsyncWeakBase
    {
        public delegate void IsBusyChangeHandler(bool isBusy);
        /// <summary>
        /// This event happen only the UI thread in low priority
        /// </summary>
        public event IsBusyChangeHandler IsBusyChange;
        private readonly ConcurrentStack<bool> _stackBusy = new ConcurrentStack<bool>();
        // ******************************************************************
        public static void Init(Dispatcher dispatcher)
        {
            Instance.Dispatcher = dispatcher;
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        public static Global Instance = new Global();
        // ******************************************************************
        private Global()
        {
            _busyLifeTrackerStack = new LifeTrackerStack(() => PushState(), PullState);
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        /// <summary>
        /// Will set busy state temporary until object is disposed where 
        /// the state will be back to its previous state.
        /// </summary>
        /// <param name="isBusy"></param>
        /// <returns></returns>
        public LifeTracker GetDisposableBusyState(bool isBusy = true)
        {
            return new LifeTracker(() => PushState(isBusy), PullState);
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        private bool _isBusy;
        /// <summary>
        /// This property should be use by the GUI part in order to control the mouse cursor
        /// </summary>
        public bool IsBusy
        {
            get => _isBusy;
            private set
            {
                if (value == _isBusy) return;
                _isBusy = value;
                Dispatcher.BeginInvoke(new Action(() => IsBusyChange?.Invoke(_isBusy)), DispatcherPriority.ContextIdle);
                NotifyPropertyChanged();
            }
        }
        private readonly object _objLockBusyStateChange = new object();
        // ******************************************************************
        /// <summary>
        /// Always prefer usage of "Using(Global.Instance.GetDisposableBusyState())" whenever possible.
        /// Otherwise ensure to call Pull State to get back previous state of the cursor when action is 
        /// completed
        /// </summary>
        /// <param name="isBusy"></param>
        public void PushState(bool isBusy = true)
        {
            lock (_objLockBusyStateChange)
            {
                _stackBusy.Push(isBusy);
                IsBusy = isBusy;
            }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        public void PullState()
        {
            lock (_objLockBusyStateChange)
            {
                _stackBusy.TryPop(out bool isBusy);
                if (_stackBusy.TryPeek(out isBusy))
                {
                    IsBusy = isBusy;
                }
                else
                {
                    IsBusy = false;
                }
            }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        private readonly LifeTrackerStack _busyLifeTrackerStack = null;
        /// <summary>
        /// Only kept for historical reason / compatibility with previous code
        /// </summary>
        [Obsolete("Use direct 'using(Gloabl.Instance.GetDisposableBusyState(isBusy))' which is simpler")]
        public LifeTrackerStack BusyLifeTrackerStack
        {
            get { return _busyLifeTrackerStack; }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        // private int _latestVersionExecuted = 0;
        private int _currentVersionRequired = 0;
        private readonly object _objLockRunOnce = new object();
        private readonly Dictionary<int, GlobalRunOncePerQueueData> _actionsToRunOncePerQueue =
            new Dictionary<int, GlobalRunOncePerQueueData>();
        private readonly int _countOfRequestInQueue = 0;
        /// <summary>
        /// It will record all action once per key and it
        /// once per Dispatcher queue roll over (on ContextIdle).
        /// When the dispatcher reach the DispatcherPriority.ContextIdle, it will
        /// run all action once.
        /// Thread safe... no action will be lost but can be run twice or more if
        /// some are added by other thread(s) at the same time one is executed.
        /// </summary>
        /// EO: sorry for the name but it is the best found
        /// <param name="key"></param>
        /// <param name="action"></param>
        public void RunOncePerQueueRollOnDispatcherThread(int key, Action action)
        {
            lock (_objLockRunOnce)
            {
                if (!_actionsToRunOncePerQueue.TryGetValue(key, out GlobalRunOncePerQueueData data))
                {
                    data = new GlobalRunOncePerQueueData(action);
                    _actionsToRunOncePerQueue.Add(key, data);
                }
                _currentVersionRequired++;
                data.VersionRequired = _currentVersionRequired;
            }
            if (_countOfRequestInQueue <= 1)
            {
                Dispatcher.CurrentDispatcher.BeginInvoke(DispatcherPriority.ContextIdle, new Action(ExecuteActions));
            }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        private void ExecuteActions()
        {
            int versionExecute;
            List<GlobalRunOncePerQueueData> datas = null;
            lock (_objLockRunOnce)
            {
                versionExecute = _currentVersionRequired;
                datas = _actionsToRunOncePerQueue.Values.ToList();
            }
            foreach (var data in datas)
            {
                data.Action();
            }
            lock (_objLockRunOnce)
            {
                List<int> keysToRemove = new List<int>();
                foreach (var kvp in _actionsToRunOncePerQueue)
                {
                    if (kvp.Value.VersionRequired <= versionExecute)
                    {
                        keysToRemove.Add(kvp.Key);
                    }
                }
                keysToRemove.ForEach(k => _actionsToRunOncePerQueue.Remove(k));
                if (_actionsToRunOncePerQueue.Count == 0)
                {
                    // _latestVersionExecuted = 0;
                    _currentVersionRequired = 0;
                }
                else
                {
                    // _latestVersionExecuted = versionExecute;
                }
            }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
    }
}
using System;
using System.Collections.Generic;
using System.Diagnostics;
using System.Linq;
using System.Text;
using System.Threading.Tasks;
using System.Windows.Input;
using System.Windows.Threading;
using HQ.Util.General;
using HQ.Util.General.Notification;
using Microsoft.VisualBasic.Devices;
using System.Windows;
using Mouse = System.Windows.Input.Mouse;
using System.Threading;
namespace HQ.Wpf.Util
{
    public class AppGlobal
    {
        // ******************************************************************
        public static void Init(Dispatcher dispatcher)
        {
            if (System.Windows.Input.Keyboard.IsKeyDown(Key.LeftShift) || System.Windows.Input.Keyboard.IsKeyDown(Key.RightShift))
            {
                var res = MessageBox.Show($"'{AppInfo.AppName}' has been started with shift pressed. Do you want to wait for the debugger (1 minute wait)?", "Confirmation", MessageBoxButton.YesNo,
                    MessageBoxImage.Exclamation, MessageBoxResult.No);
                if (res == MessageBoxResult.Yes)
                {
                    var start = DateTime.Now;
                    while (!Debugger.IsAttached)
                    {
                        if ((DateTime.Now - start).TotalSeconds > 60)
                        {
                            break;
                        }
                        Thread.Sleep(100);
                    }
                }
            }
            if (dispatcher == null)
            {
                throw new ArgumentNullException();
            }
            Global.Init(dispatcher);
            Instance.Init();
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        public static readonly AppGlobal Instance = new AppGlobal();
        // ******************************************************************
        private AppGlobal()
        {
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        private void Init()
        {
            Global.Instance.PropertyChanged += AppGlobalPropertyChanged;
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        void AppGlobalPropertyChanged(object sender, System.ComponentModel.PropertyChangedEventArgs e)
        {
            if (e.PropertyName == "IsBusy")
            {
                if (Global.Instance.IsBusy)
                {
                    if (Global.Instance.Dispatcher.CheckAccess())
                    {
                        Mouse.OverrideCursor = Cursors.Wait;
                    }
                    else
                    {
                        Global.Instance.Dispatcher.BeginInvoke(new Action(() => Mouse.OverrideCursor = Cursors.Wait));
                    }
                }
                else
                {
                    if (Global.Instance.Dispatcher.CheckAccess())
                    {
                        Mouse.OverrideCursor = Cursors.Arrow;
                    }
                    else
                    {
                        Global.Instance.Dispatcher.BeginInvoke(new Action(() => Mouse.OverrideCursor = Cursors.Arrow));
                    }
                }
            }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
    }
}
using HQ.Util.General;
using System;
using System.Collections.Generic;
using System.Linq;
using System.Text;
using System.Threading.Tasks;
using System.Windows;
using System.Windows.Input;
namespace HQ.Wpf.Util
{
    /// <summary>
    /// Ensure window cursor is "normal" (arrow) when visible.
    /// Usage: In Window class, define a member: OverrideCursorMtForWindow. Instantiate in constructor after Initialisation.
    /// </summary>
    public class WindowWithAutoBusyState
    {
        // ******************************************************************
        Window _window;
        bool _nextStateShoulBeVisible = true;
        // ******************************************************************
        public WindowWithAutoBusyState()
        {
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        public void Init(Window window)
        {
            _window = window;
            _window.Cursor = Cursors.Wait;
            _window.Loaded += (object sender, RoutedEventArgs e) => _window.Cursor = Cursors.Arrow;
            _window.IsVisibleChanged += WindowIsVisibleChanged;
            _window.Closed += WindowClosed;
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        private void WindowIsVisibleChanged(object sender, DependencyPropertyChangedEventArgs e)
        {
            if (_window.IsVisible)
            {
                if (_nextStateShoulBeVisible)
                {
                    Global.Instance.PushState(false);
                    _nextStateShoulBeVisible = false;
                }
            }
            else
            {
                if (!_nextStateShoulBeVisible)
                {
                    Global.Instance.PullState();
                    _nextStateShoulBeVisible = true;
                }
            }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
        private void WindowClosed(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            if (!_nextStateShoulBeVisible)
            {
                Global.Instance.PullState();
                _nextStateShoulBeVisible = true;
            }
        }
        // ******************************************************************
    }
}