You need to use setPreferredSize() on the component. Then, to resize it, call setBounds().
I would probably subclass the button, and override the setText(String text) method to include the resizing code.
@Override
public void setText(String arg0) {
super.setText(arg0);
FontMetrics metrics = getFontMetrics(getFont());
int width = metrics.stringWidth( getText() );
int height = metrics.getHeight();
Dimension newDimension = new Dimension(width+40,height+10);
setPreferredSize(newDimension);
setBounds(new Rectangle(
getLocation(), getPreferredSize()));
}
For testing, I did this in the constructor of my new JButton subclass:
public ResizeToTextButton(String txt){
super(txt);
addActionListener(new ActionListener() {
@Override
public void actionPerformed(ActionEvent arg0) {
setText(JOptionPane.showInputDialog("Text"));
}
});
}
So, whenever I clicked on the button I could change the text and see if it resized properly.