Have you ever considered pm2 as an alternative. pm2 has some pretty neat features like:
- Running a cluster
- Restarting instances in the cluster one by one (zero downtime deployments)
- Resource monitoring (shows realtime cpu and memory usage)
- Manage all pm2 processes using the cli
You can control restarts also by adding a --restart-delay <delay> option.
Hereby a full output of the help of this tool.
pm2 --help
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               - CPU/Memory monitoring
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[PM2] Spawning PM2 daemon
[PM2] PM2 Successfully daemonized
Usage: pm2 [cmd] app
Commands:
start [options] <file|json|stdin|app_name|pm_id...>                  start and daemonize an app
deploy <file|environment>                                            deploy your json
startOrRestart <json>                                                start or restart JSON file
startOrReload <json>                                                 start or gracefully reload JSON file
startOrGracefulReload <json>                                         start or gracefully reload JSON file
stop [options] <id|name|all|json|stdin...>                           stop a process (to start it again, do pm2 restart <app>)
restart [options] <id|name|all|json|stdin...>                        restart a process
scale <app_name> <number>                                            scale up/down a process in cluster mode depending on total_number param
reload <name|all>                                                    reload processes (note that its for app using HTTP/HTTPS)
gracefulReload <name|all>                                            gracefully reload a process. Send a "shutdown" message to close all connections.
id <name>                                                            get process id by name
delete <name|id|script|all|json|stdin...>                            stop and delete a process from pm2 process list
sendSignal <signal> <pm2_id|name>                                    send a system signal to the target process
ping                                                                 ping pm2 daemon - if not up it will launch it
updatePM2                                                            update in-memory PM2 with local PM2
update                                                               (alias) update in-memory PM2 with local PM2
install|module:install <module|git:/>                                install or update a module and run it forever
module:update <module|git:/>                                         update a module and run it forever
module:generate [app_name]                                           Generate a sample module in current folder
uninstall|module:uninstall <module>                                  stop and uninstall a module
publish|module:publish                                               Publish the module you are currently on
set <key> <value>                                                    sets the specified config <key> <value>
multiset <value>                                                     multiset eg "key1 val1 key2 val2
get [key]                                                            get value for <key>
conf [key] [value]                                                   get / set module config values
config <key> [value]                                                 get / set module config values
unset <key>                                                          clears the specified config <key>
interact [options] [secret_key|command] [public_key] [machine_name]  linking action to keymetrics.io - command can be stop|info|delete|restart
link [options] [secret_key|command] [public_key] [machine_name]      linking action to keymetrics.io - command can be stop|info|delete|restart
web                                                                  launch a health API on port 9615
dump                                                                 dump all processes for resurrecting them later
save                                                                 (alias) dump all processes for resurrecting them later
resurrect                                                            resurrect previously dumped processes
startup [platform]                                                   auto resurrect process at startup. [platform] = ubuntu, centos, redhat, gentoo, systemd, darwin, amazon
logrotate                                                            copy default logrotate configuration
generate                                                             generate an ecosystem.json configuration file
ecosystem                                                            generate an ecosystem.json configuration file
reset <name|id|all>                                                  reset counters for process
describe <id>                                                        describe all parameters of a process id
desc <id>                                                            (alias) describe all parameters of a process id
info <id>                                                            (alias) describe all parameters of a process id
show <id>                                                            (alias) describe all parameters of a process id
list                                                                 list all processes
ls                                                                   (alias) list all processes
l                                                                    (alias) list all processes
status                                                               (alias) list all processes
jlist                                                                list all processes in JSON format
prettylist                                                           print json in a prettified JSON
monit                                                                launch termcaps monitoring
m                                                                    (alias) launch termcaps monitoring
flush                                                                flush logs
reloadLogs                                                           reload all logs
logs [options] [id|name]                                             stream logs file. Default stream all logs
kill                                                                 kill daemon
pull <name> [commit_id]                                              updates repository for a given app
forward <name>                                                       updates repository to the next commit for a given app
backward <name>                                                      downgrades repository to the previous commit for a given app
gc                                                                   force PM2 to trigger garbage collection
deepUpdate                                                           performs a deep update of PM2
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Options:
-h, --help                           output usage information
-V, --version                        output the version number
-v --version                         get version
-s --silent                          hide all messages
-m --mini-list                       display a compacted list without formatting
-f --force                           force actions
-n --name <name>                     set a <name> for script
-i --instances <number>              launch [number] instances (for networked app)(load balanced)
-l --log [path]                      specify entire log file (error and out are both included)
-o --output <path>                   specify out log file
-e --error <path>                    specify error log file
-p --pid <pid>                       specify pid file
-k --kill-timeout <delay>            delay before sending final SIGKILL signal to process
--max-memory-restart <memory>        specify max memory amount used to autorestart (in megaoctets)
--restart-delay <delay>              specify a delay between restarts (in milliseconds)
--env <environment_name>             specify environment to get specific env variables (for JSON declaration)
-x --execute-command                 execute a program using fork system
-u --user <username>                 define user when generating startup script
--hp <home path>                     define home path when generating startup script
-c --cron <cron_pattern>             restart a running process based on a cron pattern
-w --write                           write configuration in local folder
--interpreter <interpreter>          the interpreter pm2 should use for executing app (bash, python...)
--interpreter-args <arguments>       interpret options (alias of --node-args)
--log-date-format <momentjs format>  add custom prefix timestamp to logs
--no-daemon                          run pm2 daemon in the foreground if it doesn't exist already
--skip-env                           do not refresh environmnent on restart/reload
--source-map-support                 force source map support
--only <application-name>            with json declaration, allow to only act on one application
--disable-source-map-support         force source map support
--merge-logs                         merge logs from different instances but keep error and out separated
--watch [paths]                      watch application folder for changes
--ignore-watch <folders|files>       folder/files to be ignored watching, chould be a specific name or regex - e.g. --ignore-watch="test node_modules "some scripts""
--node-args <node_args>              space delimited arguments to pass to node in cluster mode - e.g. --node-args="--debug=7001 --trace-deprecation"
--no-color                           skip colors
--no-vizion                          start an app without vizion feature (versioning control)
--no-autorestart                     start an app without automatic restart
--no-treekill                        Only kill the main process, not detached children
--no-pmx                             start an app without pmx
--no-automation                      start an app without pmx
Basic Examples:
Start an app using all CPUs available + set a name :
$ pm2 start app.js -i 0 --name "api"
Restart the previous app launched, by name :
$ pm2 restart api
Stop the app :
$ pm2 stop api
Restart the app that is stopped :
$ pm2 restart api
Remove the app from the process list :
$ pm2 delete api
Kill daemon pm2 :
$ pm2 kill
Update pm2 :
$ npm install pm2@latest -g ; pm2 update
More examples in https://github.com/Unitech/pm2#usagefeatures
Deployment help:
$ pm2 deploy help