So I did some research and this is what I came up with.
You can do it and it isn't actually that hard using templates and the [ngTemplateOutlet]. This is how it works:
@Component({
  selector: 'my-app',
  template: `
    <ng-template #temp>
        <h1 [ngStyle]="{background: 'green'}">Test</h1>
        <p *ngIf="bla">Im not visible</p>   
    </ng-template>
    <ng-container *ngTemplateOutlet="temp"></ng-container>
    <ng-container *ngTemplateOutlet="temp"></ng-container>
    `
})
export class AppComponent {
    bla: boolean = false;
    @ContentChild('temp') testEl: any;
} 
So you create a reference template, add all of your logic inside of it, and then you just create as many copies of the template using the [ngTemplateOutlet]. All of the inner bindings and angular functionality is retained.
Here is a working plunker:
http://plnkr.co/edit/jPt5eKUfLUe9FxnLH8bL?p=preview
As you can see I've tested it with *ngIf and [ngStyle] and they work as expected and I don't see any reason why any other kind of directive wouldn't work.
You can even use *ngFor but then you need to provide the [ngOutletContext].
I've done that in a library I'm working on you can see an example here:
https://github.com/flauc/ng2-simple-components/blob/master/src/select/select.component.ts