You could use the following MarkupExtension. You just need to add both files to your class library.
WpfRdExt/StyleRefExtension.cs
public abstract class StyleRefExtension : MarkupExtension
{
    #region Fields
    /// <summary>
    /// Property for specific resource dictionary
    /// </summary>
    protected static ResourceDictionary RD;
    #endregion
    #region Properties
    /// <summary>
    /// Resource key which we want to extract
    /// </summary>
    public string ResourceKey { get; set; }
    #endregion
    #region Public Methods
    /// <summary>
    /// Overriding base function which will return key from RD
    /// </summary>
    /// <param name="serviceProvider">Not used</param>
    /// <returns>Object from RD</returns>
    public override object ProvideValue(IServiceProvider serviceProvider)
    {
        return ProvideValue();
    }
    public object ProvideValue()
    {
        if (RD == null)
            throw new Exception(
                @"You should define RD before usage. 
            Please make it in static constructor of extending class!");
        return RD[ResourceKey];
    }
    #endregion
}
Implementation as StyleRefExt.cs:
public class StyleRefExt : StyleRefExtension
{
    #region Constructors
    static StyleRefExt()
    {
        RD = new ResourceDictionary {
                 Source = new Uri("pack://application:,,,/YourNamespace;component/Styles/YourStyle1.xaml")};
        RD.MergedDictionaries.Add(new ResourceDictionary {
                                      Source = new Uri(
                                          "pack://application:,,,/YourNamespace;component/Styles/YourStyle2.xaml")});
    }
    #endregion
}
Then you can use your Resources marked by x:Key="YourKey" from class library in your user control library like this:
<TextBox Style="{YourNamespace:StyleRefExt ResourceKey=YourKey}" />
For me this works fine and I use it too.