The other answer is related but different.
For something closer, see this: How to conditionally wrap a div around ng-content - my solution is for Angular 4, but the linked question has some hints about how this might be doable for Angular 2.
I solved this problem with a component and a directive combined.  My component looks something like this:
import { Component, Input, TemplateRef } from '@angular/core';
@Component({
  selector: 'my-wrapper-container',
  template: `
<div class="whatever">
  <ng-container *ngTemplateOutlet="template"></ng-container>
</div>
`
})
export class WrapperContainerComponent {
  @Input() template: TemplateRef<any>;
}
and my directive like this:
import { Directive, OnInit, Input, TemplateRef, ComponentRef, ComponentFactoryResolver, ViewContainerRef } from '@angular/core';
@Directive({
  selector: '[myWrapperDirective]'
})
export class WrapperDirective implements OnInit {
  private wrapperContainer: ComponentRef<WrapperContainerComponent>;
  constructor(
    private templateRef: TemplateRef<any>,
    private viewContainerRef: ViewContainerRef,
    private componentFactoryResolver: ComponentFactoryResolver
  ) { }
  ngOnInit() {
    const containerFactory = this.componentFactoryResolver.resolveComponentFactory(WrapperContainerComponent);
    this.wrapperContainer = this.viewContainerRef.createComponent(containerFactory);
    this.wrapperContainer.instance.template = this.templateRef;
  }
}
To be able to load your component dynamically, you need to list your component as an entryComponent inside your module :
@NgModule({
  imports: [CommonModule],
  declarations: [WrapperContainerComponent, WrapperDirective],
  exports: [WrapperContainerComponent, WrapperDirective],
  entryComponents: [WrapperContainerComponent]
})
export class MyModule{}
so the HTML in the end is:
<some_tag *myWrapperDirective />
Which renders as:
<my-wrapper-container>
  <div class="whatever">
    <some_tag />
  </div>
</my-wrapper-container>
{{ageRef?.errors | json}}` It works if you wrap both the `` and the code that uses the element ref in the same `