I've developed a function that allows you to use named parameters in your SQL queries:
private PreparedStatement generatePreparedStatement(String query, Map<String, Object> parameters) throws DatabaseException
    {
        String paramKey = "";
        Object paramValue = null;
        PreparedStatement statement = null;
        Pattern paramRegex = null; 
        Matcher paramMatcher = null;
        int paramIndex = 1;
        try
        {
            //Create the condition
            paramRegex = Pattern.compile("(:[\\d\\w_-]+)", Pattern.CASE_INSENSITIVE | Pattern.MULTILINE);
            paramMatcher = paramRegex.matcher(query);
            statement = this.m_Connection.prepareStatement(paramMatcher.replaceAll("?"),
                                ResultSet.TYPE_FORWARD_ONLY,
                                ResultSet.CONCUR_READ_ONLY, 
                                ResultSet.HOLD_CURSORS_OVER_COMMIT);
            //Check if there are parameters
            paramMatcher = paramRegex.matcher(query);
            while (paramMatcher.find()) 
            {
                paramKey = paramMatcher.group().substring(1);
                if(parameters != null && parameters.containsKey(paramKey))
                {
                    //Add the parameter 
                    paramValue = parameters.get(paramKey);
                    if (paramValue instanceof Date) 
                    {
                        statement.setDate(paramIndex, (java.sql.Date)paramValue);                 
                    } 
                    else if (paramValue instanceof Double) 
                    {
                        statement.setDouble(paramIndex, (Double)paramValue);                  
                    } 
                    else if (paramValue instanceof Long) 
                    {
                        statement.setLong(paramIndex, (Long)paramValue);                  
                    } 
                    else if (paramValue instanceof Integer) 
                    {
                        statement.setInt(paramIndex, (Integer)paramValue);                
                    } 
                    else if (paramValue instanceof Boolean) 
                    {
                        statement.setBoolean(paramIndex, (Boolean)paramValue);                
                    } 
                    else 
                    {
                        statement.setString(paramIndex, paramValue.toString());     
                    }
                }
                else
                {
                    throw new DatabaseException("The parameter '" + paramKey + "' doesn't exists in the filter '" + query + "'");
                }
                paramIndex++;
            }
        }
        catch (SQLException  l_ex) 
        {
            throw new DatabaseException(tag.lib.common.ExceptionUtils.getFullMessage(l_ex));
        }
        return statement;
    }
You can use it this way:
Map<String, Object> pars = new HashMap<>();
pars.put("name", "O'Really");
String sql = "SELECT * FROM TABLE WHERE NAME = :name";