So i have got this almost completely working. The one thing i am stuck on is where to start in preg_match. I have read the manual here http://php.net/manual/en/function.preg-match.php but it doesn't exactly describe to me the syntax for creating my own validation. Example: for a text area, if i wanna only allow white space, letters, numbers and maybe some special characters(unlikely). Here is the code
<?php
    if(isset($_POST['name'])
            && isset($_POST['phone'])
            && isset($_POST['email'])) {
            if (empty($_POST["name"])) {
                    $nameErr = "Name is required";
            }
            else {
                    $name = $_POST["name"];
              // check if name only contains letters and whitespace for name
                    if (!preg_match("/^[a-zA-Z ]*$/",$name)) {
                            $nameErr = "Only letters and white space 
                                allowed";
                    }
            }
            if (empty($_POST["phone"])) {
                    $phoneErr = "Phone number is required";
            }
            else {
                    $phone = $_POST["phone"];
                     // check if phone only contains numbers for phone
                    if (!preg_match('/^\(?[\d]{3}\)?\s?\-?[\d]{3}\s?\-?[\d]
                        {4}$/', $phone)) {
                            $phoneErr = "Only numbers allowed";
                    }
            }
            if (empty($_POST["email"])) {
                    $emailErr = "Email is required";
            }
            else {
                    $email = $_POST["email"];
                    // check if e-mail address is well-formed
                    if (!filter_var($email, FILTER_VALIDATE_EMAIL)) {
                            $emailErr = "Invalid email format";
                    }
            }
            if($nameErr or $emailErr or $phoneErr){
                    echo $nameErr;
                    echo $phoneErr;
                    echo $emailErr;
                    die();
            }
            else if($data = $_POST['name'] . "\n" .
                    $_POST['email'] . "\n" .
                    $_POST['phone'] . "\n" .
                    $_POST['county'] . "\n" .
                    $_POST['floor'] . "\n" .
                    $_POST['descr'] . "\n"){
                    echo "Thank you for your inquery!" . "<br/>" .
                            "An estimator will be with you shortly.";
                    mail('theshadowcallsu@gmail.com', 'Estimation Request', 
                          $data);
            }
    }
 ?>
 
     
    