Well, either you learn the basics of regex syntax and use re, or you have a look at the Python's xml.etree.ElementTree module to parse the xml directly.
If you want to go with a regex, you can test language-specific expressions interactively with online tools, regex101 for example.
Maybe <(?P<method>\w*?) (?P<code>\w*?)=\"(?P<value>.*)\"> will do the job.
But once again, as mentioned, extracting data from XML using regex is fragile and very limited.
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