I can't tell that the following is the answer for the I want to finally, once and for all, learn the proper way... , but this is how me doing it in all my deployments.
- Install anyenv sudo git clone https://github.com/riywo/anyenv /opt/anyenv- you could deploy it into your$HOMEasgit clone https://github.com/riywo/anyenv ~/.anyenvbut myself prefering some commonly accessible place. This step isn't mandatory, but for me help managing other local installations asnodeand such.
- change ownership: sudo chown -R jm666 /opt/anyenv- you will manage the content
- add into the .profile:
export ANYENV_ROOT=/opt/anyenv
export PATH="$ANYENV_ROOT/bin:$PATH"
eval "$(anyenv init -)"
Relog, or run exec $SHELL -l. Now you have installed an helper for all commonly needed environments.
Now install the perl env. helper, called plenv. 
anyenv install plenv
Or follow the guide in the repo if you don't want the previous anyenv step.
And finally install fresh perl using plenv:
plenv install -l #will display all available perl versions
plenv install 5.26.1 -j 8 # number of proc cores or less. :)
This will take some time - on my notebook 4m23,186s - just tested :).
plenv global 5.26.1 # now all `perl script.pl` will use the freshly installed perl
plenv install-cpanm
plenv rehash #needed if you install some commands which should be accesible from `bash`
And you're ready to install any perl modules using cpanm - without compromising the system-wide installed perl. Everything will be installed into the plenv's directory tree. Even, you never need be root.
This way I could manage to have the same development and deployment environment. Maybe here is a better way - but for me the above works.
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