This one should work. There might be some faults with it, but none that I can think of right now. If anyone want to improve on it, feel free to do so.
/http:\/\/(?:www\.)?([a-z0-9\-]+)(?:\.[a-z\.]+[\/]?).*/i
http:\/\/            matches the "http://" part
(?:www\.)?           is a non-capturing group that matches zero or one "www."
([a-z0-9\-]+)        is a capturing group that matches character ranges a-z, 0-9
                     in addition to the hyphen. This is what you wanted to extract.
(?:\.[a-z\.]+[\/]?)  is a non-capturing group that matches the TLD part (i.e. ".com",
                     ".co.uk", etc) in addition to zero or one "/"
.*                   matches the rest of the url
http://rubular.com/r/ROz13NSWBQ