I have two JFrames. 
AddSongFrame takes in the user input through jTextFields and MusicPlayerandLibraryForm updates the jList with the user input. 
However, I have run into a problem with adding elements to the jList. At the line
MusicPlayerAndLibraryForm mplf = new MusicPlayerAndLibraryForm();
it seems that the JFrame is not updating the jList. It clears the jList and then adds the songName to the jList. 
How can I access the JFrame in a way where it doesn't clear the jList when the user accesses another jFrame?
public class AddSongFrame extends javax.swing.JFrame {
        ArrayList<Song> songs = new ArrayList<Song>();
        ArrayList<Song> songFileLibrary = new ArrayList<Song>();
        DefaultListModel dlm = new DefaultListModel();
        int currentIndex = 0;
        public AddSongFrame() {
            initComponents();
        }
        private void jButtonBrowseFilesActionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {                                                   
           JFileChooser fileBrowser = new JFileChooser();
           fileBrowser.showOpenDialog(null);
           File f = fileBrowser.getSelectedFile();
           String fileName = f.getAbsolutePath();
           jTextFieldFileName.setText(fileName);
        }                                                  
        private void jButtonAddSongActionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {                                               
            String fileName = jTextFieldFileName.getText();
            String songName = jTextFieldSongName.getText();
            String songGenre = jTextFieldSongGenre.getText();
            String songArtist = jTextFieldArtist.getText();
            Song song = new Song(songName, fileName, songGenre, songArtist);
            Song songFiles = new Song(fileName,songName, songGenre,songArtist);
            songs.add(song);
            songFileLibrary.add(songFiles);
            updatejListMusicLibrary();
        }                                              
        private void updatejListMusicLibrary()
        {
            MusicPlayerAndLibraryForm mplf = new MusicPlayerAndLibraryForm();
            MusicPlayerAndLibraryForm.getjListMusicLibrary().setModel(dlm);
            mplf.setDlmMain(dlm);
            this.setVisible(false);
            mplf.setVisible(true);
    }
 
     
    