I believe src_dbi is a function from dbplyr and not dplyr.
To get the definition of that function (or the code of that function), just type the function with the brackets so they're not treated as a function call: 
dbplyr::src_dbi
And R output:
function (con, auto_disconnect = FALSE) 
{
    if (is_false(auto_disconnect)) {
        disco <- NULL
    }
    else {
        disco <- db_disconnector(con, quiet = is_true(auto_disconnect))
    }
    structure(list(con = con, disco = disco), class = c("src_dbi", 
        "src_sql", "src"))
}
<environment: namespace:dbplyr>
Which tells me the namespace and the definition of that function.