The https://github.com/webcompere/java-test-gadgets project lets you solve this in a couple of ways.
You can use its support for JUnit 4 rules via the DangerousRuleAdapter - which will attempt to turn any JUnit 4 rule into a Plugin:
@ExtendWith(PluginExtension.class)
public class DangerousRuleAdapterExampleTest {
    @Plugin
    private DangerousRuleAdapter<WireMockRule> adapter = 
        new DangerousRuleAdapter<>(new WireMockRule());
    @Test
    void theTest() {
        // use wiremock rule here
        WireMockRule rule = adapter.get();
    }
The rule adapters cannot work with rules that inspect the test class or the test method, but make a good attempt at running the rule.
There's also support for running a rule around some code:
    TemporaryFolder temporaryFolder = new TemporaryFolder();
    // let's use this temp folder with some test code
    executeWithRule(temporaryFolder, () -> {
        // here, the rule is _active_
        callSomethingThatUses(temporaryFolder.getRoot());
    });
And you can easily create your own new JUnit 5 plugin by using the PluginExtension and TestResource.of
@ExtendWith(PluginExtension.class)
class TestResourceIsActiveDuringTest {
    private WireMockServer server;
    @Plugin
    private TestResource someResource = TestResource.from(() -> server.start(),
                                                          () -> server.stop());