Here you can find how to create .jar in Netbeans: How to create a Jar file in Netbeans
You can run the executable jar on every single computer, on one condition - the system have JRE installed.
If you want to, you can also build the .jar using command line, to do that use the following command:
jar cf jar-file input-file(s)
Description from Oracle doc:
The options and arguments used in this command are:
The c option indicates that you want to create a JAR file. The f
  option indicates that you want the output to go to a file rather than
  to stdout. jar-file is the name that you want the resulting JAR file
  to have. You can use any filename for a JAR file. By convention, JAR
  filenames are given a .jar extension, though this is not required. The
  input-file(s) argument is a space-separated list of one or more files
  that you want to include in your JAR file. The input-file(s) argument
  can contain the wildcard * symbol. If any of the "input-files" are
  directories, the contents of those directories are added to the JAR
  archive recursively. The c and f options can appear in either order,
  but there must not be any space between them.
This command will generate a compressed JAR file and place it in the
  current directory. The command will also generate a default manifest
  file for the JAR archive.