I am trying to bind some values to ToolTipService.ShowDuration and some other ToolTip's properties in a CellStyle of DataGridTextColumn.
Normaly, I am doing something like this:
<UserControl
    ...namespace declarations...>
    <UserControl.Resources>
        <mycontrols:BindingProxy x:Key="proxy" Data="{Binding MySettings}"/>
    </UserControl.Resources>
    <DataGrid>
        <DataGridTextColumn
            Binding="{Binding SomeBinding}">
            <DataGridTextColumn.CellStyle>
                <Style 
                    TargetType="DataGridCell" 
                    BasedOn="{StaticResource ResourceKey={x:Type DataGridCell}}">
                    <Setter 
                        Property="ToolTipService.ShowDuration" 
                        Value="{Binding Data.ToolTipDuration, Source={StaticResource proxy}}"/>
                    <Setter Property="ToolTip">
                        <Setter.Value>
                            <TextBlock 
                                Text="{Binding SomeBinding}" 
                                MaxWidth="{Binding Data.ToolTipMaxWidth, Source={StaticResource proxy}}" 
                                TextWrapping="Wrap" TextTrimming="CharacterEllipsis"/>
                        </Setter.Value>
                    </Setter>
                </Style>
            </DataGridTextColumn.CellStyle>
        </DataGridTextColumn>
    </DataGrid>
</UserControl>
Since ToolTip has it's own visual tree, I am using binding proxy like this:
public class BindingProxy : Freezable
    {
        protected override Freezable CreateInstanceCore()
        {
            return new BindingProxy();
        }
        public object Data
        {
            get { return (object)GetValue(DataProperty); }
            set { SetValue(DataProperty, value); }
        }
        // Using a DependencyProperty as the backing store for Data.  This enables animation, styling, binding, etc...
        public static readonly DependencyProperty DataProperty =
            DependencyProperty.Register("Data", typeof(object), typeof(BindingProxy), new UIPropertyMetadata(null));
    }
Up to this point, all works as expected. But I wanted to re-use this DataGridTextColumn, so I created new file like this:
<DataGridTextColumn
    x:Class="Test.MyControls.DataGridLargeTextColumn"
    xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml/presentation"
    xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2006/xaml"
    xmlns:local="clr-namespace:Test.MyControls">
    <DataGridTextColumn.CellStyle>
        <Style 
            TargetType="DataGridCell" 
            BasedOn="{StaticResource ResourceKey={x:Type DataGridCell}}">
            <Setter 
                Property="ToolTipService.ShowDuration" 
                Value="{Binding ToolTipDuration}"/>
            <Setter Property="ToolTip">
                <Setter.Value>
                    <TextBlock 
                        Text="{Binding SomeBinding}" 
                        MaxWidth="{Binding ToolTipWidth}" 
                        TextWrapping="Wrap" TextTrimming="CharacterEllipsis"/>
                </Setter.Value>
            </Setter>
        </Style>
    </DataGridTextColumn.CellStyle>
</DataGridTextColumn>
With code behinde:
public partial class DataGridLargeTextColumn : DataGridTextColumn
{
    public int ToolTipDuration
    {
        get { return (int)GetValue(ToolTipDurationProperty); }
        set { SetValue(ToolTipDurationProperty, value); }
    }
    public static readonly DependencyProperty ToolTipDurationProperty =
        DependencyProperty.Register("ToolTipDuration", typeof(int), typeof(DataGridLargeTextColumn), new UIPropertyMetadata(default(int)));
    public string SomeBinding
    {
        get { return (string)GetValue(SomeBindingProperty); }
        set { SetValue(SomeBindingProperty, value); }
    }
    public static readonly DependencyProperty SomeBindingProperty =
        DependencyProperty.Register("SomeBinding", typeof(string), typeof(DataGridLargeTextColumn), new UIPropertyMetadata(default(string)));
    public int ToolTipWidth
    {
        get { return (int)GetValue(ToolTipWidthProperty); }
        set { SetValue(ToolTipWidthProperty, value); }
    }
    public static readonly DependencyProperty ToolTipWidthProperty =
        DependencyProperty.Register("ToolTipWidth", typeof(int), typeof(DataGridLargeTextColumn), new UIPropertyMetadata(default(int)));
    public DataGridLargeTextColumn()
    {
        InitializeComponent();
    }
}
This does't work because ToolTip has it's own visual tree, but since I have nowhere to put proxy, I don't know how to make it work or if it is even possible. I found this answer, and it seems to be on the right track, however, I tried to implement it like this with no luck:
<Setter 
    Property="ToolTipService.ShowDuration"
    Value="{Binding Path=PlacementTarget.(local:DataGridLargeTextColumn.ToolTipDuration), RelativeSource={RelativeSource Self}}"/>
<Setter Property="ToolTip">
    <Setter.Value>
        <TextBlock 
            Text="{Binding Path=PlacementTarget.(local:DataGridLargeTextColumn.SomeBinding), RelativeSource={RelativeSource Self}}" 
            MaxWidth="{Binding Path=PlacementTarget.(local:DataGridLargeTextColumn.ToolTipWidth), RelativeSource={RelativeSource Self}}" 
            TextWrapping="Wrap" TextTrimming="CharacterEllipsis"/>
    </Setter.Value>
</Setter>
Am I using PlacementTarget wrong? If not, why is it not working, and is there another solution?
UPDATE:
As per Mark's answer, I've modified the DataGridLargeTextColumn's Style:
<Style
    TargetType="DataGridCell" 
    BasedOn="{StaticResource {x:Type DataGridCell}}">
    <Setter 
        Property="ToolTipService.ShowDuration" Value="{Binding Path=PlacementTarget.ToolTipShowDuration, RelativeSource={x:Static RelativeSource.Self}}"/>
    <Setter Property="ToolTip">
        <Setter.Value>
            <ToolTip DataContext="{Binding Path=PlacementTarget, RelativeSource={x:Static RelativeSource.Self}}">
                <TextBlock 
                    Text="{Binding DataContext.SomeBinding}"
                    MaxWidth="{Binding Column.ToolTipWidth}"
                    TextWrapping="Wrap" TextTrimming="CharacterEllipsis"/>
            </ToolTip>
        </Setter.Value>
    </Setter>
</Style>
And I'm using that control like this:
<UserControl
    ...namespace declarations...>
    <UserControl.Resources>
        <mycontrols:BindingProxy x:Key="proxy" Data="{Binding MySettings}"/>
    </UserControl.Resources>
    <DataGrid>
        <DataGrid.Columns>
            <mycontrols:DataGridLargeTextColumn
                Binding="{Binding SomeBinding}"
                ToolTipShowDuration="{Binding Data.ToolTipDuration, Source={StaticResource proxy}}"
                ToolTipWidth="{Binding Data.ToolTipMaxWidth, Source={StaticResource proxy}}"/>
        </DataGrid.Columns>
    </DataGrid>
</UserControl>
Width binding now works like a charm, but there are two problems I still cannot solve:
- I cannot get tool tip's duration to bind, I have tried few different approches, but since it's abstract, it cannot be declared explicitly
 - ToolTip's 
Textproperty is set toSomeBinding, which is OK in this particular case, but I want to be able to set it to whatever, so I tried to declare it usingDependencPropertyfrom above like this: 
Text="{Binding Column.ToolTipText}"
This works OK if i use it with string literal:
<myControls:DataGridLargeTextColumn
    Binding="{Binding SomeBinding}"
    ToolTipText="12345"
    ToolTipShowDuration="{Binding Data.ToolTipDuration, Source={StaticResource proxy}}"
    ToolTipWidth="{Binding Data.ToolTipMaxWidth, Source={StaticResource proxy}}"/>
But it doesn't work when I try to bind it, which is what I am trying to achieve:
<myControls:DataGridLargeTextColumn
    Binding="{Binding SomeBinding}"
    ToolTipText="{Binding SomeOtherPropertyBinding}" 
    ToolTipShowDuration="{Binding Data.ToolTipDuration, Source={StaticResource proxy}}"
    ToolTipWidth="{Binding Data.ToolTipMaxWidth, Source={StaticResource proxy}}"/>