hello there i did the deep copy and the shallow copy is suggested by the user AndyMan and now i did the JUnit and im having a slight problem making those tests:
1.deep copy method
   public ListNode<E> deep_clone() {
           first = deep_clone(first);
           ListNode<E> copy = new ListNode<>(first);
     return copy;
    } 
    private static Node deep_clone(Node head) {
        if (head == null) {
            return null;
        }
        Node temp = new Node(head.getData());
        temp.setNext(deep_clone(head.getNext()));
        return temp;
    }
Edit
many thanks for AndyMan for suggesting this shallow copy method:
private static Node shallow_clone(Node head) {
   if (head == null)
      return null;
   Node temp = new Node(head.getData());
   temp.setNext(head.getNext());  // Just copy the reference
return temp;
}
but one question though how to Junit both the deep and shallow copy methods?
i did the following and i got a failed Junit test:
@Test
public void test_shallow_clone(){
    ListNode<Integer> list =new ListNode<>();
    for (int i = 0; i < 10; i++)
        list.insert(i);
    ListNode<Integer>cloned =list.shallow_clone();
    //assertSame(cloned,list); //failed i dont know why
    //assertEquals(cloned, list);//Even though its shallow copy i get that they are  not equal!
    assertSame(list.getFirst(), cloned.getFirst());
    assertTrue(cloned.equals(list));
}
and the test for the deep copy:
@Test
public void test_depp_clone(){
    ListNode<Integer> list =new ListNode<>();
    for (int i = 0; i < 10; i++)
        list.insert(i);
    ListNode<Integer>cloned =list.depp_clone();
    assertSame(cloned.getFirst(),list.getFirst());//check for same val..
    //assertEquals(cloned, list);//this make the test fail..
    assertFalse(cloned.equals(list));//okay the are not equal lists this means its deep copy...no implemented equal method :)
}
class ListNode
public class ListNode<E> implements Iterable<E>{
private Node<E> first;
//private Node<E> last;
public ListNode() {
    first = null;
    //last = null;
}
public ListNode(Node head) {
    this.first = head;
    //this.last = this.first;
}
public ListNode(E data) {
    Node head = new Node(data);
    this.first = head;
    //this.last = this.first;
}
@Override
public Iterator<E> iterator() {
    return new LL_Iterator<>(first);
}
private static class Node<E> {
    private E data;
    private Node next;
    public Node() {
        this.data = null;
        this.next = null;
    }
    public Node(E data) {
        this.data = data;
        next = null;
    }
    public Node(E data, Node next) {
        this.data = data;
        this.next = null;
    }
    public E getData() {
        return data;
    }
    public void setData(E val) {
        this.data = val;
    }
    public Node getNext() {
        return next;
    }
    public void setNext(Node next) {
        this.next = next;
    }
    @Override
    public String toString() {
        return "Node{" + "data=" + data + ", next=" + next + '}';
    }
}
private static class LL_Iterator<E> implements Iterator<E> {
    private Node<E> curr;//we have to specify the E here because if we dont we have to cast the curr.getData()
    public LL_Iterator(Node head) {
        curr = head;
    }
    @Override
    public boolean hasNext() {
        return curr != null;
    }
    @Override
    public E next() {
        if (hasNext()) {
            E data = curr.getData();
            curr = curr.getNext();
            return data;
        }
        return null;
    }
}
public E getFirst(){
    if(first==null)
        return null;
    return first.getData();
}
public boolean addFirst (E data) {
    if(data==null)
        return false;
    Node t= new Node (data);
    t.setNext(first);
    first=t;
    return true;
}
public E getLast() {
    if (first==null)
        return null;
    return getLast(first).getData();
}
private static<E> Node<E> getLast(Node<E> head) {
    if (head == null) {
        return null;
    }
    Node temp = head;
    if (temp.getNext() != null) {
        temp = getLast(temp.getNext());
    }
    return temp;
}
//insertion....Wie setLast
public boolean insert(E data) {
    if(data==null)
        return false;
    first = insert(first, data);
    //last = getLast();
    return true;
}
private static <E> Node insert(Node head, E data) {
    if (head == null) {
        return new Node(data);
    } else {
        head.setNext(insert(head.getNext(), data));
    }
    return head;
}
public void printList(){
    LL_Iterator it= new LL_Iterator(first);
    printUsingIterator(it,it.next());
}
private static<E> void printUsingIterator (LL_Iterator it, E data){
    //VERDAMMT MAL RHEINFOLGE DER ANWEISUNGEN MACHT UNTERSCHIED
    System.out.print(data+"->");
    if (!it.hasNext()) {
        System.out.print(it.next()+"\n");//THIS WILL PRINT NULL!!!
        return;
    }
    printUsingIterator(it,it.next());
}
public int size() {
    return size(first);
}
private static int size(Node head) {
    if (head == null) {
        return 0;
    } else {
        return 1 + size(head.getNext());
    }
}
public boolean contains(E data) {
    return contains(first, data);
}
public static <E> boolean contains(Node head, E data) {
    if (head == null || data == null) {
        return false;
    }
    if (head.getData().equals(data)) {
        return true;
    }
    return contains(head.getNext(), data);
}
public int countIf(E t) {
    return countIf(first, t);
}
private static <E> int countIf(Node head, E t) {
    if (head == null ||t ==null) {
        return 0;
    }
    if (head.getData().equals(t)) {
        return 1 + countIf(head.getNext(), t);
    }
    return countIf(head.getNext(), t);
}
//TODO: WHY IM GETTING HERE AN OVERRIDE REQUEST FROM THE COMPILER??
//answer because im overriding the damn clone() of the list class which is shallow clone
public ListNode<E> depp_clone() {
    first = depp_clone(first);
    ListNode<E> copy = new ListNode<>(first);
    return copy;
}
private static Node depp_clone(Node head) {
    if (head == null) {
        return null;
    }
    Node temp = new Node(head.getData());
    temp.setNext(depp_clone(head.getNext()));
    return temp;
}
public ListNode shallow_clone (){
    ListNode<E> cloned=new ListNode<>(shallow_clone(first));
    return cloned;
}
private static Node shallow_clone(Node head) {
    if (head == null)
        return null;
    Node temp = new Node(head.getData());
    temp.setNext(head.getNext());  // Just copy the reference
    return temp;
}
 
    