I am newcomer to java and as you see this program in java swing  consists of one jframe and one jpanel. When you click a button its color changes to red and automatically button 1 pressed and its color changed to blue.
But the problem is I want a delay between these actions and when I use Thread.sleep(1000) it causes a delay between pressing a button and changing its color and I don't want that.
What can i do that when I press the button 2 (for example) its color changed immediately and after 1 second button 1 pressed?
jframe:
public class NewJFrame extends javax.swing.JFrame {
    private String player = "Player 1";
    private JButton[] btn = new JButton[4];
    public NewJFrame() {
        initComponents();
    }
    @SuppressWarnings("unchecked")
// <editor-fold defaultstate="collapsed" desc="Generated Code">                          
    private void initComponents() {
        newJPanel1 = new NewJPanel();
        newJPanel2 = new NewJPanel();
        btn1 = new javax.swing.JButton();
        btn2 = new javax.swing.JButton();
        btn3 = new javax.swing.JButton();
        javax.swing.GroupLayout newJPanel1Layout = new javax.swing.GroupLayout(newJPanel1);
        newJPanel1.setLayout(newJPanel1Layout);
        newJPanel1Layout.setHorizontalGroup(
                newJPanel1Layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
                        .addGap(0, 100, Short.MAX_VALUE)
        );
        newJPanel1Layout.setVerticalGroup(
                newJPanel1Layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
                        .addGap(0, 100, Short.MAX_VALUE)
        );
        setDefaultCloseOperation(javax.swing.WindowConstants.EXIT_ON_CLOSE);
        newJPanel2.setBackground(new java.awt.Color(255, 255, 255));
        newJPanel2.setBorder(javax.swing.BorderFactory.createLineBorder(new java.awt.Color(0, 0, 0)));
        btn1.addActionListener(new java.awt.event.ActionListener() {
            public void actionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {
                btnAction(evt);
            }
        });
        btn2.addActionListener(new java.awt.event.ActionListener() {
            public void actionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {
                btnAction(evt);
            }
        });
        btn3.addActionListener(new java.awt.event.ActionListener() {
            public void actionPerformed(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {
                btnAction(evt);
            }
        });
        javax.swing.GroupLayout newJPanel2Layout = new javax.swing.GroupLayout(newJPanel2);
        newJPanel2.setLayout(newJPanel2Layout);
        newJPanel2Layout.setHorizontalGroup(
                newJPanel2Layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
                        .addGroup(newJPanel2Layout.createSequentialGroup()
                                .addGap(35, 35, 35)
                                .addComponent(btn1)
                                .addGap(74, 74, 74)
                                .addComponent(btn2)
                                .addGap(66, 66, 66)
                                .addComponent(btn3)
                                .addContainerGap(104, Short.MAX_VALUE))
        );
        newJPanel2Layout.setVerticalGroup(
                newJPanel2Layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
                        .addGroup(newJPanel2Layout.createSequentialGroup()
                                .addGap(31, 31, 31)
                                .addGroup(newJPanel2Layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.BASELINE)
                                        .addComponent(btn1, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE, 23, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE)
                                        .addComponent(btn2, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE, 23, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE)
                                        .addComponent(btn3, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE, 23, javax.swing.GroupLayout.PREFERRED_SIZE))
                                .addContainerGap(222, Short.MAX_VALUE))
        );
        javax.swing.GroupLayout layout = new javax.swing.GroupLayout(getContentPane());
        getContentPane().setLayout(layout);
        layout.setHorizontalGroup(
                layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
                        .addGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.TRAILING, layout.createSequentialGroup()
                                .addContainerGap()
                                .addComponent(newJPanel2, javax.swing.GroupLayout.DEFAULT_SIZE, javax.swing.GroupLayout.DEFAULT_SIZE, Short.MAX_VALUE)
                                .addContainerGap())
        );
        layout.setVerticalGroup(
                layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
                        .addGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.TRAILING, layout.createSequentialGroup()
                                .addContainerGap()
                                .addComponent(newJPanel2, javax.swing.GroupLayout.DEFAULT_SIZE, javax.swing.GroupLayout.DEFAULT_SIZE, Short.MAX_VALUE)
                                .addContainerGap())
        );
        pack();
    }// </editor-fold>                        
    private void btnAction(java.awt.event.ActionEvent evt) {
        JButton btn = (JButton) evt.getSource();
        if (player.equals("Player 1")) {
            player = "Player 2";
            btn.setBackground(Color.RED);
        } else {
            player = "Player 1";
            btn.setBackground(Color.BLUE);
        }
        try {
            Thread.sleep(1000);
        } catch (InterruptedException ex) {
            Logger.getLogger(NewJFrame.class.getName()).log(Level.SEVERE, null, ex);
        }
        player2Action();
    }
    private void player2Action() {
        if (player.equals("Player 2")) {
            btn1.doClick();
        }
    }
    public static void main(String args[]) {
        try {
            for (javax.swing.UIManager.LookAndFeelInfo info : javax.swing.UIManager.getInstalledLookAndFeels()) {
                if ("Nimbus".equals(info.getName())) {
                    javax.swing.UIManager.setLookAndFeel(info.getClassName());
                    break;
                }
            }
        } catch (ClassNotFoundException ex) {
            java.util.logging.Logger.getLogger(NewJFrame.class.getName()).log(java.util.logging.Level.SEVERE, null, ex);
        } catch (InstantiationException ex) {
            java.util.logging.Logger.getLogger(NewJFrame.class.getName()).log(java.util.logging.Level.SEVERE, null, ex);
        } catch (IllegalAccessException ex) {
            java.util.logging.Logger.getLogger(NewJFrame.class.getName()).log(java.util.logging.Level.SEVERE, null, ex);
        } catch (javax.swing.UnsupportedLookAndFeelException ex) {
            java.util.logging.Logger.getLogger(NewJFrame.class.getName()).log(java.util.logging.Level.SEVERE, null, ex);
        }
        java.awt.EventQueue.invokeLater(new Runnable() {
            public void run() {
                new NewJFrame().setVisible(true);
            }
        });
    }
// Variables declaration - do not modify                     
    private javax.swing.JButton btn1;
    private javax.swing.JButton btn2;
    private javax.swing.JButton btn3;
    private NewJPanel newJPanel1;
    private NewJPanel newJPanel2;
// End of variables declaration                   
}
jpanel:
public class NewJPanel extends javax.swing.JPanel {
    public NewJPanel() {
        initComponents();
    }
    @SuppressWarnings("unchecked")
    // <editor-fold defaultstate="collapsed" desc="Generated Code">                          
    private void initComponents() {
        javax.swing.GroupLayout layout = new javax.swing.GroupLayout(this);
        this.setLayout(layout);
        layout.setHorizontalGroup(
                layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
                        .addGap(0, 400, Short.MAX_VALUE)
        );
        layout.setVerticalGroup(
                layout.createParallelGroup(javax.swing.GroupLayout.Alignment.LEADING)
                        .addGap(0, 300, Short.MAX_VALUE)
        );
    }// </editor-fold>                        
    // Variables declaration - do not modify                     
    // End of variables declaration                   
}