var original_role = $('option:selected', '#user_role').val();
$('#role_cancel').click(function() {
//console.log(original_role);
  $('option:selected', '#user_role').removeAttr('selected'); //deselect current option
  $('#user_role').find('option[value="' + original_role + '"]').attr('selected'); //select original value
});body {
  background: #20262E;
  padding: 20px;
  font-family: Helvetica;
}
#banner-message {
  background: #fff;
  border-radius: 4px;
  padding: 20px;
  font-size: 25px;
  text-align: center;
  transition: all 0.2s;
  margin: 0 auto;
  width: 300px;
}
button {
  background: #0084ff;
  border: none;
  border-radius: 5px;
  padding: 8px 14px;
  font-size: 15px;
  color: #fff;
}
#banner-message.alt {
  background: #0084ff;
  color: #fff;
  margin-top: 40px;
  width: 200px;
}
#banner-message.alt button {
  background: #fff;
  color: #000;
}<script src="https://cdnjs.cloudflare.com/ajax/libs/jquery/3.3.1/jquery.min.js"></script>
<div id="banner-message">
  <div class="col-md-9">
    <select name="user_role" class="form-control" id="user_role">
      <option value="0">Ninguno</option>
      <option value="1">Admin</option>
      <option value="24">Secretario general</option>
      <option value="25">SecretarioExcursiones</option>
      <option value="26">Tesorería</option>
      <option value="27">Almacen</option>
      <option value="28">Coordinador</option>
      <option value="30">Reta</option>
      <option value="31">Invitado</option>
      <option value="32" selected="">Prospecto</option>
      <option value="33">Presidente</option>
      <option value="34">Eventos especiales</option>
      <option value="36">Guía</option>
      <option value="37">Soci@</option>
      <option value="38">Inivtado</option>
    </select>
  </div>
  
  <button id="role_cancel">
  RESET
  </button>
  
</div>When pressing RESET, the select should
- Remove selected attr/prop from whatever option in the dropdown was selected
- Select the originally selected value from the dropdown (make the change visually and in DOM)
So far is doing none of this.
 
    