Laravel in PHP made this easy with https://laravel.com/docs/9.x/session#flash-data, so I figured Next.js would have an easy way too.
I thought I'd be able to do something like:
export const getServerSideProps: GetServerSideProps = async (ctx) => {
  const session = await getSession(ctx);
  if (!session) {
   ctx.res.setHeader("yourFlashVariable", "yourFlashValue");
   console.log('headers', ctx.res.getHeaders()); // Why is it not even appearing here?
    return {
      redirect: {
        destination: '/',
        permanent: false,
      },
    };
  }
  const props = ...
  return { props };
};
and then in my other page:
export const getServerSideProps: GetServerSideProps = async (context) => {
  const { headers, rawHeaders } = context.req;
  // look inside the headers for the variable
  // ...
But the header doesn't appear.
If you know how to achieve the goal of a flash variable (even if not using headers), I'm interested in whatever approach.
(Originally I asked How can I show a toast notification when redirecting due to lack of session using Next-Auth in Next.js? but now feel like I should have asked this more generic question.)
UPDATE
I appreciate the reasonable suggestion from https://stackoverflow.com/a/72210574/470749 so have tried it.
Unfortunately, index.tsx still does not get any value from getFlash.
// getFlash.ts
import { Session } from 'next-session/lib/types';
export default function getFlash(session: Session) {
  // If there's a flash message, transfer it to a context, then clear it.
  const { flash = null } = session;
  console.log({ flash });
  // eslint-disable-next-line no-param-reassign
  delete session.flash;
  return flash;
}
// getNextSession.ts
import nextSession from 'next-session';
export default nextSession();
// foo.tsx
import { getSession } from 'next-auth/react';
import { GetServerSideProps, InferGetServerSidePropsType, NextApiRequest, NextApiResponse } from 'next';
import getNextSession from '../helpers/getNextSession';
export const getServerSideProps: GetServerSideProps = async (ctx) => {
  const session = await getSession(ctx);
  if (!session) {
    const req = ctx.req as NextApiRequest;
    const res = ctx.res as NextApiResponse;
    const nSession = await getNextSession(req, res);
    nSession.flash = 'You must be logged in to access this page.'; // THIS LINE CAUSES A WARNING
    console.log({ nSession });
    return {
      redirect: {
        destination: '/',
        permanent: false,
      },
    };
  }
  // ...
  return { props };
};
// index.tsx
import { GetServerSideProps } from 'next';
import getFlash from '../helpers/getFlash';
import getNextSession from '../helpers/getNextSession';
export const getServerSideProps: GetServerSideProps = async (context) => {
  const session = await getNextSession(context.req, context.res);
  let toast = getFlash(session);
  console.log({ toast });
  if (!toast) {
    toast = 'no toast';
  }
  console.log({ toast });
  return {
    props: { toast }, // will be passed to the page component as props
  };
};
Also, the nSession.flash = line causes this warning:
warn - You should not access 'res' after getServerSideProps resolves. Read more: https://nextjs.org/docs/messages/gssp-no-mutating-res