It seems that class and interfaces imported from COM - and that is all that can be COM imported - can be grepped with a simple regular expression (or what findstr considers a regular expression - note the escaped space, which would otherwise be taken for an "OR" - i.e. a | in most regex languages):
> ildasm /text NetClient.exe | findstr "\.class.*\ import "
.class interface private abstract auto ansi import NetClient.IServer
.class interface private abstract auto ansi import NetClient.Server
.class private auto ansi import beforefieldinit NetClient.ServerClass
I've tested this with a bunch of dlls already and there was no false positive - I only hope there were no false negatives either...
Also - thanks Simon in the comments - CreateInstance() can be used to load dlls dynamically at runtime, so it should be checked as well (using grep this time instead of findstr, due to the latter's unusual and limited regexp syntax):
> ildasm /text file.dll \
| grep -E 'call.*System.Activator|Reflection.Assembly)::CreateInstance'
N.B. ildasm should come installed with Visual Studio, and is easiest to call when using the Visual Studio Developer Command Prompt.