How does one change the size of the points only in a ggplot2 legend? I want them to remain the size I have in the plot code, but to appear bigger in the legend.
My plot code is here:
ggplot(df, aes(x=log(length), y=log(wt), shape=Depth,fill=Depth,color=Depth, linetype=Depth)) +
  geom_point(aes(),size=2,alpha=1,stroke=1.3) + 
  geom_smooth(method=lm, se=FALSE, fullrange=FALSE) +
  facet_wrap(~ LakeYear, nrow=3, ncol=2) +
  labs(x="ln Length (mm)", y="ln Weight (mg)") +
  scale_fill_manual(values=cbPalette2,name="Depth")+
  scale_color_manual(values=cbPalette,name="Depth") +
  scale_shape_manual(values=c(16,15,21,18),name="Depth")+
  scale_linetype_manual(values =c("<5 m"="solid", "10-15 m"="solid", "15-20 m"="solid",">20 m"="dashed"),name="Depth")+
  PlotTheme + 
  theme(panel.spacing.x=unit(1.4, "lines"),panel.spacing.y=unit(1, "lines"),legend.title=element_text(size=16))
I have tried to add + guides(color = guide_legend(override.aes = list(size=3))) and + guides(shape = guide_legend(override.aes = list(size = 2)))  but this just changes the line size. I have tried some code I found from an example here
# Make JUST the legend points larger without changing the size of the legend lines:
# To get a list of the names of all the grobs in the ggplot
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grid::grid.ls(grid::grid.force())
# Set the size of the point in the legend to 2 mm
grid::grid.gedit("key-[-0-9]-1-1", size = unit(4, "mm"))
but I just get the error: "In editThisGrob(child, specs) : slot 'size' not found" so I'm assuming the key is wrong, but I can't figure out which from the list of all the grobs to use here. the list is here:
 grid::grid.ls(grid::grid.force())
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Reproducible data here:
df<-structure(list(length = c(11, 12, 11, 11.5, 10.5, 13, 14.5, 
                                14, 13.5, 14.5, 16, 17, 16, 15, 16.5, 19.5, 17, 18, 18, 18, 21, 
                                22, 22, 21, 25, 21.5, 12, 11, 11, 11, 12, 14, 14, 13, 15, 15, 
                                17, 17, 18, 17, 17, 15, 18, 19, 18, 18, 18, 20, 20, 21.5, 21, 
                                20.5, 19, 10, 10, 10, 11, 10, 14, 14, 14, 12, 12, 16, 15, 15, 
                                16, 14.5, 17, 19, 17.5, 18, 16, 21, 20), wt = c(29.93, 
                                                                                      36.62, 33.43, 26.19, 29.67, 47.1, 65.19, 53.49, 44.99, 73.23, 
                                                                                      77.9, 84.43, 86.32, 92.27, 103.75, 169.24, 101.62, 90.84, 148.23, 
                                                                                      104.87, 181.57, 206.07, 260.59, 218.19, 342.74, 142.64, 40.92, 
                                                                                      29.82, 26.09, 30.9, 41.24, 48.46, 65.48, 48.97, 70.79, 72.81, 
                                                                                      87.81, 82.07, 118.5, 83.5, 73.91, 73.04, 129.38, 117.68, 117.14, 
                                                                                      110.19, 91.55, 126.26, 131.6, 200.63, 179.75, 169.95, 107.1, 
                                                                                      32.99, 24.79, 27.12, 30.12, 17.89, 48.93, 53.61, 48.38, 35.52, 
                                                                                      34.6, 85.03, 61.42, 54.22, 71.06, 71.91, 86.84, 85.96, 126.16, 
                                                                                      135.9, 73.39, 138.03, 207.45), Depth = structure(c(2L, 2L, 
                                                                                                                                             2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 
                                                                                                                                             2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 
                                                                                                                                             2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 2L, 
                                                                                                                                             2L, 2L, 2L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 
                                                                                                                                             4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L, 4L), .Label = c("<5 m", "10-15 m", 
                                                                                                                                                                                             "15-20 m", ">20 m"), class = "factor"), LakeYear = structure(c(1L, 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L, 1L), .Label = c("one - 1995", 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "two - 1993", "three - 1999", "four - 2015", "five - 2019", 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "six - 2019"), class = "factor")), row.names = c(NA, 75L), class = "data.frame")
Any thoughts on making this work, or a simpler solution?
Edit: Not a duplicate question, I highlighted other posts and said their solutions don't work for me.
Added either
 p+ guides(color = guide_legend(override.aes = list(size=5)))
p+ guides(shape = guide_legend(override.aes = list(size = 5)))


 
    
