We need to override a DependencyProperty's metadata for our subclass.  Now I know that I can use OverrideMetadata and specify entirely new FrameworkPropertyMetadata object, but for the most part I want this new metadata to be exactly the same as the existing metadata except with one additional flag set (specifically AffectsMeasure)
My thought is to get the existing metadata, create a new metadata object, hand-copy all the members over from the old to the new (it doesn't support Clone) changing the one I want, then use the new one in the OverrideMetadata call.  But da** that is a lot of work for something otherwise so simple!
Am I missing something here?
EDIT
First things first, I meant AffectsMeasure not AffectsRender (which I've changed above), 
BUT... I just found out our class already has the AffectsMeasure flag set for the Width property.  The real issue is for containers of a ListBox (e.g. a ListBoxItem) the MeasureOverride is only called once, when first initialized. 
Since this is technically an unrelated question, I'll start a new one and close this one.
Here's the link to the new question:
Why is a ListBoxItem not calling MeasureOverride when its width is changed?