For context:
• Ventura 13.4.1
• Python 3.11.4
• Running in Jupyter Notebook in VSCode
• Selenium 4.11.2
I was able to run a Selenium script on an existing webpage, and then Selenium was unable to connect to Chrome because WebDriverException: Message: Unable to obtain Selenium Manager (not sure why it suddenly stopped working, no packages were updated).  I installed Selenium 4.11.2 from miniconda, but this bug report said to try the pip release instead.
So then I couldn't connect to Chrome again.  ChromeDriver was installed by brew and chromedriver --port=9222 says
Starting ChromeDriver 114.0.5735.90 (386bc09e8f4f2e025eddae123f36f6263096ae49-refs/branch-heads/5735@{#1052}) on port 9222 
ChromeDriver was started successfully.
I also run /Applications/Google\ Chrome.app/Contents/MacOS/Google\ Chrome -–remote-debugging-port=9222 and it opens a new Chrome window.
This is the beginning of my Selenium script:
from bs4 import BeautifulSoup
import requests
import pandas as pd
from selenium import webdriver
from selenium.webdriver.common.by import By
from selenium.webdriver.common.keys import Keys
from webdriver_manager.chrome import ChromeDriverManager
from selenium.webdriver.chrome.options import Options
from selenium.webdriver.chrome.service import Service
import time
import json
chromeoptions = Options()
chromeoptions.debugger_address='127.0.0.1:9222'
driver = webdriver.Chrome(service=Service(ChromeDriverManager(driver_version='114.0.5735.90').install()), options=chromeoptions)
and it throws Message: unknown error: cannot connect to chrome at 127.0.0.1:9222 from chrome not reachable.
Both ChromeDriver and Google Chrome were added to my PATH
export PATH=$PATH:/opt/homebrew/Caskroom/chromedriver/114.0.5735.90/chromedriver
export PATH=$PATH:/Applications/Google\ Chrome.app/Contents/MacOS/Google\ Chrome
as confirmed by echo $PATH: /opt/homebrew/Caskroom/chromedriver/114.0.5735.90/chromedriver:/Applications/Google Chrome.app/Contents/MacOS/Google Chrome
UPDATE: Same error after
chromeoptions = Options()
chromeoptions.add_experimental_option(name='debuggerAddress', value='127.0.0.1:9222')
# chromeoptions.debugger_address='127.0.0.1:9222'
driver = webdriver.Chrome(options=chromeoptions)
driver.get("https://www.linkedin.com")
, ./selenium-manager --browser chrome --debug returns
DEBUG   Checking chromedriver in PATH
DEBUG   Running command: chromedriver --version
DEBUG   Output: "ChromeDriver 114.0.5735.90 (386bc09e8f4f2e025eddae123f36f6263096ae49-refs/branch-heads/5735@{#1052})"
DEBUG   Running command: which chromedriver
DEBUG   Output: "/opt/homebrew/bin/chromedriver"
DEBUG   Found chromedriver 114.0.5735.90 in PATH: /opt/homebrew/bin/chromedriver
DEBUG   chrome detected at /Applications/Google Chrome.app/Contents/MacOS/Google Chrome
DEBUG   Using shell command to find out chrome version
DEBUG   Running command: /Applications/Google\ Chrome.app/Contents/MacOS/Google\ Chrome --version
DEBUG   Output: "Google Chrome 114.0.5735.198 "
DEBUG   Detected browser: chrome 114.0.5735.198
DEBUG   Required driver: chromedriver 114.0.5735.90
INFO    Driver path: /opt/homebrew/bin/chromedriver
INFO    Browser path: /Applications/Google Chrome.app/Contents/MacOS/Google Chrome
 
    