I had the same issue. For me, depending on a user's permission level, some links, buttons and other elements will not show on the page. Part of my suite was testing that the elements that should be missing, are missing. I spent hours trying to figure this out. I finally found the perfect solution.
It tells the browser to look for any and all elements based specified. If it results in 0, that means no elements based on the specification was found. Then I have the code execute an *if statement to let me know it was not found.
This is in C#, so translations would need to be done to Java. But it shouldn’t be too hard.
public void verifyPermission(string link)
{
    IList<IWebElement> adminPermissions = driver.FindElements(By.CssSelector(link));
    if (adminPermissions.Count == 0)
    {
        Console.WriteLine("User's permission properly hidden");
    }
}
There's also another path you can take depending on what you need for your test.
The following snippet is checking to see if a very specific element exists on the page. Depending on the element's existence I have the test execute an if else.
If the element exists and is displayed on the page, I have console.write let me know and move on. If the element in question exists, I cannot execute the test I needed, which is the main reasoning behind needing to set this up.
If the element does not exist and is not displayed on the page, I have the else in the if else execute the test.
IList<IWebElement> deviceNotFound = driver.FindElements(By.CssSelector("CSS LINK GOES HERE"));
// If the element specified above results in more than 0 elements and is displayed on page execute the following, otherwise execute what’s in the else statement
if (deviceNotFound.Count > 0 && deviceNotFound[0].Displayed){
    // Script to execute if element is found
} else {
    // Test script goes here.
}
I know I'm a little late on the response to the OP. Hopefully this helps someone!