This is what I used and it worked.  I got everything from here: OWASP Clickjacking protection in java 
In the web.xml, add one of these in, depending on which policy you want to enforce:
<display-name>OWASP ClickjackFilter</display-name>
    <filter>
        <filter-name>ClickjackFilterDeny</filter-name>
        <filter-class>org.owasp.filters.ClickjackFilter</filter-class>
        <init-param>
            <param-name>mode</param-name>
            <param-value>DENY</param-value>
        </init-param>
    </filter>
    <filter>
        <filter-name>ClickjackFilterSameOrigin</filter-name>
        <filter-class>org.owasp.filters.ClickjackFilter</filter-class>
        <init-param>
            <param-name>mode</param-name>
            <param-value>SAMEORIGIN</param-value>
        </init-param>
    </filter>
     <!--  use the Deny version to prevent anyone, including yourself, from framing the page -->
    <filter-mapping> 
        <filter-name>ClickjackFilterDeny</filter-name>
        <url-pattern>/*</url-pattern>
    </filter-mapping>
    <!-- use the SameOrigin version to allow your application to frame, but nobody else
    <filter-mapping> 
        <filter-name>ClickjackFilterSameOrigin</filter-name>
        <url-pattern>/*</url-pattern>
    </filter-mapping>
    -->
    ...
Then in the java code:
public class ClickjackFilter implements Filter 
{
    private String mode = "DENY";
    /**
     * Add X-FRAME-OPTIONS response header to tell IE8 (and any other browsers who
     * decide to implement) not to display this content in a frame. For details, please
     * refer to http://blogs.msdn.com/sdl/archive/2009/02/05/clickjacking-defense-in-ie8.aspx.
     */
    public void doFilter(ServletRequest request, ServletResponse response, FilterChain chain) throws IOException, ServletException {
        HttpServletResponse res = (HttpServletResponse)response;
        //If you have Tomcat 5 or 6, there is a known bug using this code.  You must have the doFilter first:
        chain.doFilter(request, response);
        res.addHeader("X-FRAME-OPTIONS", mode );            
        //Otherwise use this:
        //res.addHeader("X-FRAME-OPTIONS", mode );          
        //chain.doFilter(request, response);
    }
    public void destroy() {
    }
    public void init(FilterConfig filterConfig) {
        String configMode = filterConfig.getInitParameter("mode");
        if ( configMode != null ) {
            mode = configMode;
        }
    }