A basic/common class in R is called "dist", and is a relatively efficient representation of a symmetric distance matrix. Unlike a "matrix" object, however, there does not seem to be support for manipulating an "dist" instance by index pairs using the "[" operator.
For example, the following code returns nothing, NULL, or an error:
# First, create an example dist object from a matrix
mat1  <- matrix(1:100, 10, 10)
rownames(mat1) <- 1:10
colnames(mat1) <- 1:10
dist1 <- as.dist(mat1)
# Now try to access index features, or index values
names(dist1)
rownames(dist1)
row.names(dist1)
colnames(dist1)
col.names(dist1)
dist1[1, 2]
Meanwhile, the following commands do work, in some sense, but do not make it any easier to access/manipulate particular index-pair values:
dist1[1] # R thinks of it as a vector, not a matrix?
attributes(dist1)
attributes(dist1)$Diag <- FALSE
mat2 <- as(dist1, "matrix")
mat2[1, 2] <- 0
A workaround -- that I want to avoid -- is to first convert the "dist" object to a "matrix", manipulate that matrix, and then convert it back to "dist". That is also to say, this is not a question about how to convert a "dist" instance into a "matrix", or some other class where common matrix-indexing tools are already defined; since this has been answered in several ways in a different SO question
Are there tools in the stats package (or perhaps some other core R package) dedicated indexing/accessing elements of an instance of "dist"? 
 
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
    